Fear, Weakness, ot Strength?

So I had this debate with myself....And I wanted to hear from everyone else...

When is it fear? When is it Strength?

My Aqua and I are done... (im accepting it)

But during our last conversation, when I asked her to see me for my Bday, and I asked why was she able to see her ex so often, but me she just cant: she stated she doesnt think thats best because she doesnt want me to hurt her anymore...

Im not seeking any Validation on this...But when is it strength? When is it fear?

When someone has hurt you....And its not the BIGGEST mistake...But youve said enough is enough—


Is it strength to stand your ground and not accept BS? Is it weakness towards working on your relationship?
or Is it out of Fear of being hurt?

Strength & fear. I dont get how it would be weakness refusing to work on a relationship with someone that hurts you repeatedly. One time, yes, more than that then it IS weakness to stay.

I think fear is the bi-product of rejection which in turn manifests into self-acknowledged weakness. Strength in this context is to accept what's done is done and move on with no further attachments.

Posted by WaterCup
Strength & fear. I dont get how it would be weakness refusing to work on a relationship with someone that hurts you repeatedly. One time, yes, more than that then it IS weakness to stay.

Isnt every relationship going to have their ups and downs?

Humans make mistakes too....

I guess Im learning that strength myself...But my own actions confuse me....

But I made this thread because they all seem to fall under the same umbrella...
and ones actions could always be interpretted as one of the 3...


Fear
Strenght
Weakness

Posted by Ssasy

Posted by WaterCup
Strength & fear. I dont get how it would be weakness refusing to work on a relationship with someone that hurts you repeatedly. One time, yes, more than that then it IS weakness to stay.

Isnt every relationship going to have their ups and downs?

Humans make mistakes too....

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Yes, but only you know which "mistakes" are worth staying for & which are not. I personally wouldnt consider cheating a mistake, though, because nobody accidentally falls on a penis.

Posted by WaterCup

Posted by Ssasy

Posted by WaterCup
Strength & fear. I dont get how it would be weakness refusing to work on a relationship with someone that hurts you repeatedly. One time, yes, more than that then it IS weakness to stay.

Isnt every relationship going to have their ups and downs?

Humans make mistakes too....

Yes, but only you know which "mistakes" are worth staying for & which are not. I personally wouldnt consider cheating a mistake, though, because nobody accidentally falls on a penis.

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hahaha well yes! That isnt a mistake....I didnt do that though thank goodness....-_-

Why are you two fighting, Sass? Is it the exes again?

Posted by WaterCup
Why are you two fighting, Sass? Is it the exes again?

I told you before. she found out i had a few convos with my ex....


But after her outburst she contacted me yesterday...

But it made me think about all of this entirely...