SirHorns

SirHorns
joined January 22, 2014
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  • SirHorns
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    Posted by beautifulsoul74
    Posted by SirHorns
    Okay, I understand that as a Cap, I can appear to have my butter together.
    That my mostly Cardinal focused chart means I'm good at starting projects, etc

    ...but sweet lord why does it seem that unless I'm outright herding everyone like sheep, they can't initiate anything by themselves?

    It's like I have to do everything and folks just wanna enjoy the ride.
    I don't even know how to fix this aside from starting to pretend I can't read or do math to get these people to stuff proactively on their own.


    Do you give them the opportunity to?
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    Yes. I mean from months to in one case an entire year. I focus on other stuff/work/etc so I give plenty of room for anyone who wants to step up to do something.
  • SirHorns
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    Posted by Mr_Pinchy
    Posted by SirHorns


    Absolutely, which is why I don't question this dynamic in workplace settings.
    It's the social ones that get me a bit. While social capital is a factor and, one would think getting bosses around would be grating. Or that one would jump at the chance to be their own boss and choose their own fate so to speak, when it comes to hobbies, etc.

    Totally, I don't mirco-manage, but do guide them enough to get things done.



    Maybe you're too overzealous.

    Lemme give an example, my two best buddies a cap and a pisces, one friday night we decide to go to the national park the other day. Okay we go then is the decision, very ad-hoc decision. I leave the pisces' place at 2 am.
    Cap calls at 7 and something am if i'm ready to go. Im like....dude!??!!
    Okay we get to the car, dude brings out an entire list of things to do and see, he wanted it all, views from two different hills overlooking some lakes, hiking around some other lakes, visiting some cabin an hour and a half walking away from the lakes etc etc....just too much.
    Pisces and i were like, okay we didn't sign up for this......we do one peak, we walk a bit in nice scenery and then we chill somewhere before going home. I could see his enthusiasm for the trip dropping with every word lol. He was a bit sour on the drive there but then he decided he won't be a puss and i guess came to terms that he should just make the best of what's offered to him.
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    Yeah...that's a bit much. With the social stuff I talking about, usually you need two people to get things off the ground. So while I have an idea on what I'd like to accomplish, I wouldn't expect the other person to go along with any drawn out plan to begin with.
  • SirHorns
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    Posted by pisceswoman123
    The headache it’s probably not as bad as waking someone else for it.


    I'd hope so, but the still choosing pain over minor inconvenience/disruption for other people concerns me.
  • SirHorns
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    Posted by sierra_
    why wake up other people?

    i won't die of a headache


    They can get back to sleep. Being in discomfort and pain when you can easily treat the cause doesn't make sense to me.
  • SirHorns
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    Posted by Toti
    They don't have time for themselves.


    That is not a good thing...
  • SirHorns
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    Posted by UnicornSag

    Yeah I know what you mean, have dealt with people like that as well. It feels like you always have to be the one to initiate and organize things. I don't really know how to deal with it when it comes to friends. Over time if it starts to bug me so much I just stop doing it as well so either they step up or nothing will be done


    Yeah, that seems to be the easiest solution. It's strange to me to see people be so passive with something they enjoy.
  • SirHorns
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    Posted by UnusualVaginalDischarge
    Posted by SirHorns
    Posted by UnicornSag
    when people see your potential and willingness to do things more they will just abuse it until you stop doing it or pretend to not be able to do it so someone else will have to step up. Can't you assign them to do tasks then?


    What about situations where NOBODY steps up, so nothing will get done?
    Oh, I can and in work place situations, I'm more than fine with this.

    When it's social hobbies, etc where everyone is supposed to equal and responsible for themselves, I find it odd that they're so passive.


    Then allocate responsibilities to each of them for the sake of equality

    Okay guys we need to plan this party
    Billie you get the decorations
    Jenny get the cake
    Bla bla bla
    We’ll all set up at this date and time

    Something like that
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    Missing my point, since I'm basically the boss in that situation anyway, giving out orders. I can do just fine.
  • SirHorns
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    Posted by DeadInside
    let them die go solo, dont be scared to be alone. you'll met another solo peep like you in this road


    In social hobbies? Well I mean I can and have before, though this pattern doesn't go away.
  • SirHorns
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    Posted by Mr_Pinchy
    Most people would secretly just like to be lead.
    It takes away the mental effort of finding the right way forward, they'd also like to keep their "social capital" intact ie good relations that would go to butter when they'd need to manhandle their assets (coworkers) to reach the goal set and most importantly it dissolves them of any and all responsability.

    Lead on dude, ppl are sheep. Micromanaging can be a chore tho.


    Absolutely, which is why I don't question this dynamic in workplace settings.
    It's the social ones that get me a bit. While social capital is a factor and, one would think getting bosses around would be grating. Or that one would jump at the chance to be their own boss and choose their own fate so to speak, when it comes to hobbies, etc.

    Totally, I don't mirco-manage, but do guide them enough to get things done.
  • SirHorns
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    Posted by UnicornSag
    when people see your potential and willingness to do things more they will just abuse it until you stop doing it or pretend to not be able to do it so someone else will have to step up. Can't you assign them to do tasks then?


    What about situations where NOBODY steps up, so nothing will get done?
    Oh, I can and in work place situations, I'm more than fine with this.

    When it's social hobbies, etc where everyone is supposed to equal and responsible for themselves, I find it odd that they're so passive.
  • SirHorns
    All the Horny Signs. Rising Ram. Solar Cap. Lunar Bull.
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    Okay, I understand that as a Cap, I can appear to have my butter together.
    That my mostly Cardinal focused chart means I'm good at starting projects, etc

    ...but sweet lord why does it seem that unless I'm outright herding everyone like sheep, they can't initiate anything by themselves?

    It's like I have to do everything and folks just wanna enjoy the ride.
    I don't even know how to fix this aside from starting to pretend I can't read or do math to get these people to stuff proactively on their own.
  • SirHorns
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    The Virgo: I have a headache.
    Me: Turn in early and rest. Did you take anything for it?
    The Virgo: I would but I don't want to wake anyone up going downstairs-

    Me:
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    When is the age Virgos start caring for themselves more?
  • SirHorns
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    Posted by tctao
    Posted by SirHorns
    Well? Would you?


    I've been stepped on by a goat lol
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    10/10 would recommend?
  • SirHorns
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    Well? Would you?
  • SirHorns
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    Posted by LadyNeptune
    Posted by SirHorns
    So who else died on the Cap board and who is the current Alpha-Capricorn here?


    You called? 😎
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    Do we currently hold the most power out of the earth sign boards?
    Do we have less cookiemonstering than our fellow cardinal broads?

    Anything of interest occur during my death?
  • SirHorns
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    Posted by CAPSLOCK2018
    Posted by SirHorns
    Posted by CAPSLOCK2018
    Posted by SirHorns
    Posted by CAPSLOCK2018
    Posted by SirHorns
    What do you do?


    Oh $ h*t ! Cap Season is lit 💡
    Happy New Years man !


    Same and happy birthday man!


    Lol mines not till the 13th.
    You must mistaken me for CAPZ . He’s the other god of Capricorn’s lol

    Early Birthday wishes are a thing man!
    Though I guess I should go home to the cap board.
    Did the property value decrease while I was dead?


    Yeah it decreased a lot. No equity here.
    Dxp even wants us to pay $ 12 to subscribe.

    You know damn well the Capricorn’s will be the last to ever pay 😂
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    Not surprising.
    Hell no.
    Damn starlight.

    ...ae people still hunting goats to add to the fwbs harems?
  • SirHorns
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    Posted by xoxflute
    Well, truecap stopped coming Sad


    She gave great advice! She'll be missed for sure.
  • SirHorns
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    Posted by hippiecrite
    Topped myself and went AWOL for a while, but I’m back. Happy new year.


    Good to see you! Happy New year!
  • SirHorns
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    Posted by WarAngel1
    I'd shoot it, butcher it, cover it in salt/pepper/olive oil, and cook that that son of a cookiemonster over mesquite coals.


    Not worried about cooked maggots in the hoof?
  • SirHorns
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    So who else died on the Cap board and who is the current Alpha-Capricorn here?