All the Horny Signs. Rising Ram. Solar Cap. Lunar Bull.
All the Horny Signs.

Let's play a game! Count how many times air signs get dragged and thrown under the bus for this thread!

I'd say take a shot but you'd either run out of booze or get alcohol poisoning first.
Nothing since the happiness I give them daily is enough.
I'm blame the water moon for this because of the level of sap.

So helpful and caring and actually quite silly. I mean seriously, I'm not even trying to sell the rose colored glasses view of things or anything!

So yeah, props to team Virgo. If anything, I should be asking what to do when a Virgo like you THAT much.
Most likely no, since he knows himself enough to admit his pride refuses to let him come back.
Posted by PhoenixRising
Posted by SirHorns
Being masterful at service.



The way you phrase things sometimes.... always leaves me curious.
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Being masterful at service.
Posted by Seraphlight
Posted by SirHorns
I'm seriously asking this. What do you get out of relationships (Friendships included) from males that you find risking your mental/emotional/spiritual independence and stability for? Just because your hormones demand you have someone with a Y chromozone that can breed if needed? What do men bring to the table for you mentally, emotionally and spiritually that you can't get for women or from yourself internally?

Hope my question is clear enough for you all to answer without any need for clarification.


Is what men and women give each other really so very different?
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That's the golden question here.
Posted by CAPR1LICIOUS
Posted by SirHorns
I'm seriously asking this. What do you get out of relationships (Friendships included) from males that you find risking your mental/emotional/spiritual independence and stability for? Just because your hormones demand you have someone with a Y chromozone that can breed if needed? What do men bring to the table for you mentally, emotionally and spiritually that you can't get for women or from yourself internally?

Hope my question is clear enough for you all to answer without any need for clarification.


Hmm, what do you mean by " risking your mental/emotional/spiritual independence and stability "? 🤔

I've never been that mentally/ emotionally/ spiritually dependent on anyone (except for my dogs maybe) so as to cause instability.

What do men bring to the table for you mentally, emotionally and spiritually that you can't get for women or from yourself internally?

Nothing really. If I were to talk about the differences between my friendships with men vs women, I'd say my male friends are better at problem solving.

I also seek their advice in relationships sometimes. Always good to get a male perspective.

On a day when none of my female friends are available for a day out, I can always rely on my male friends to show up.

I must add that I keep my friendships with men at a superficial level. So they are not as enriching or rewarding as my female friendships.
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I see. Thanks for your reply!
Posted by Soul
I guess for me I get a loyal friend. With my bestfirend I don't have to try to impress or act a certain way. I can just be myself and not be judged. There is also a deep level of respect. I can't seem to get that women.


Yeah, different standards and expectations. If you can get a man's respect, usually it sticks.
Posted by aquarius_beauty
Posted by SirHorns
Posted by aquarius_beauty
Other than the obvious part in a male anatomy. Protection, comfort, manly embrace and touch.


*Nods* Thanks for replying. Though what about men makes you feel more protected and comforted in comparison to female friends?


Why?
Well, women are more soft to the touch and feminine (obviously). I love a mans scent, touch, warmth, kiss. It's a mixture between passion and tenderness. With a woman it's all sensual and loving (which I can provide) so I feel like I'm getting back what I'm giving out. I need someone to balance me and a man does that. Plus I'm not the most petite woman (5'10" hourglass/pear-shaped body) so having a man with strength and vigor just manhandle me gets me going. Mixing it up between passion, aggression, and sensuality is what I love about a man. If I were to be with a woman, I'd have to be the man

With a man however, I get to be HIS woman and I love being able to be vulnerable with a man. I also love to nurture a man. I feel like women are too emotional and I like to break barriers and walls that men tend to put there (by nature). In other words, men are a challenge for me...at least the ones I tend to be attracted to.

Also their bravado. Call me old fashioned but I like a manly man, a gentleman. I think that energy turns me on.
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Thanks for sharing your view! *hand you a voucher to Test drive a Manly Gentlemen at the Man Factory*
Posted by LadyNeptune
Masculine energy is more linear and focused on results. Feminine energy is scattered and detail oriented, focused on the quality of said result.

Both have their strengths and weaknesses.

It benefits to have exposure to another perspective. Strengthens your own.


True! Together greatness is created.
Posted by Earthhorse
male energy and female energy are like two different color lights you can still see in the dark with each one and on their own they work fine but when you mix the two you get a third color and thats the relationship its neither male nor female its a mix and that goes to romantic or platonic its just another flavor or color to life


Well said!
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Posted by blackphase
That's a good question.. and I have no answer..

I see lots of people commenting and giving answers.. but most of those answers are things you could also get from women, so...


I thought the same exact thing. OP has made a very good and tricky question. @sirhorns you sneaky sneaky mind tricker...


Is it really sneaky if you're trying to be as transparent as possible?


Ninjas always try to be transparent.. that's why their so sneaky

But if i were on, I wouldn't be one anymore since you called me out.
Ninjas get you in your sleep and flee after all.



True, but your thread has a very good question. Every answer I see, I think, "hmm, you can do that with a woman still". I'm dead curious of what answer can really fit your question. It's a dam good question.
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*Bows* Thank you. *ninjas out*
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Posted by blackphase
That's a good question.. and I have no answer..

I see lots of people commenting and giving answers.. but most of those answers are things you could also get from women, so...


I thought the same exact thing. OP has made a very good and tricky question. @sirhorns you sneaky sneaky mind tricker...


Is it really sneaky if you're trying to be as transparent as possible?


Ninjas always try to be transparent.. that's why their so sneaky
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But if i were on, I wouldn't be one anymore since you called me out.
Ninjas get you in your sleep and flee after all.

Posted by lisabethur8
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*Gasp* at all the selfie hating!

I kid

To answer OP's question:

I'm not gonna lie, initially I couldn't really think of anything other than physical intimacy, mainly because I have had similar emotional fulfilment in friendships. But that's not necessarily a bad thing because what's love without friendship in it? Just lust/passion.

But yeah you get partnership and get to build a family with your closest confidant. Can't really do that with friends. Also, men can make you feel safe physically and emotionally.


Okay, but how do men make you feel emotionally safe or safer compared to females, pets or anything you can emotionally bond with?


in my experience, I'd say female friends understand emotions better and are good for talking through them.

But when it comes to reassurance though, especially with situations where I might be scared of something occurring in my life, I find men are better at just being there.




female companion is very very different indeed.

I LOVE the male mind's linear thoughts.

while women are more multi thinking and do multi tasking. generaly speaking ...

it's just so different.
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*nods* Men love it too, it's how we create things that everyone benefits from, like planes or donut holes.
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Posted by blackphase
That's a good question.. and I have no answer..

I see lots of people commenting and giving answers.. but most of those answers are things you could also get from women, so...


Could say because your crotch and heart demand a man that can supply high quality children for you and care about his general existence more than just his human-doings and dick (or really his sperm)



I don't want kids.. So No..

One thing I can think of though is security. Having a man makes me feel safe.. I have paranoid fears of a lot of stupid things, having a man around helps ease that a lot for me.


me and my husband and mother in law were talking about this.


a lot of women we have been noticing do NOT want children.


I wanted children but my husband doesn't want more.

and he knows best and I realize that I can only handle one or two.

I would not want five children.


you need a man who does NOT want children at all.

I know a lot of men like this...

my virgo brother in law but he was forced into it, and he makes a great father too.

and our neighbors several of them don't have children and they are senior citizens already. so NO children ever.

and plenty of my sister's girlfriends say they do NOT want children.

only one of her girlfriends wanted desperately to have one but she sucks in relationshps, sadly.

but she finally got one before her eggs died.
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I do find it quite interesting that so many women don't want kinds period now more than ever. Sure we can say the social climate plays a role, which does in a way, but that can't be the only factor.
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*Gasp* at all the selfie hating!

I kid

To answer OP's question:

I'm not gonna lie, initially I couldn't really think of anything other than physical intimacy, mainly because I have had similar emotional fulfilment in friendships. But that's not necessarily a bad thing because what's love without friendship in it? Just lust/passion.

But yeah you get partnership and get to build a family with your closest confidant. Can't really do that with friends. Also, men can make you feel safe physically and emotionally.


Okay, but how do men make you feel emotionally safe or safer compared to females, pets or anything you can emotionally bond with?


in my experience, I'd say female friends understand emotions better and are good for talking through them.

But when it comes to reassurance though, especially with situations where I might be scared of something occurring in my life, I find men are better at just being there.
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*Nods* I see! Thanks for sharing!
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Posted by blackphase
That's a good question.. and I have no answer..

I see lots of people commenting and giving answers.. but most of those answers are things you could also get from women, so...


I thought the same exact thing. OP has made a very good and tricky question. @sirhorns you sneaky sneaky mind tricker...
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Is it really sneaky if you're trying to be as transparent as possible?
Posted by blackphase
Posted by SirHorns
Posted by blackphase
That's a good question.. and I have no answer..

I see lots of people commenting and giving answers.. but most of those answers are things you could also get from women, so...


Could say because your crotch and heart demand a man that can supply high quality children for you and care about his general existence more than just his human-doings and dick (or really his sperm)



I don't want kids.. So No..

One thing I can think of though is security. Having a man makes me feel safe.. I have paranoid fears of a lot of stupid things, having a man around helps ease that a lot for me.
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*Nods* Thanks for sharing your thoughts! *hands you a voucher to Rent a Man for a day*
Posted by Undine
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Posted by Undine
1) Physical and emotional intimacy (hugs, snogs, touching, sex, care, love).

2) Conversations about science, technology, stock market, etc

3) Doing things for me for free (brewing, cooking, driving, etc)

4) A dance partner

5) Keeping me on my toes

6) Keeping me entertained


2-5 = Men proving to be more useful/having a stronger efefct on you in those areas compared to the women in your life?

1 = Biological sway since you can do the same with women.

6 is pure fact though. Men are made of fun after all.


Actually 6 was the weakest. Women are good at entertaining me, if not better than men.

replace it with this:

6. Triggering in me all the emotions and sensations that come with being in love. This should be number 1 actually.




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Ohhh~ I see. Thanks for sharing your thoughts with us!