Hi everyone... I just wanted to seek your opinion, especially geminis, regarding my situation.
I am a gemini. I know that generally, i try to be nice to everyone. But somehow, i also realized that i am short tempered. In some cases, when I accidentally show my temper, i think it causes people to have a different view of me and simply forget about how nice i've become before they saw/experienced my temper.
I am currently doing very well at work and my co-workers liked me. But yesterday, i snapped at an aries officemate of mine. She kept screaming my name because apparently, a client called me. I was busy doing something and i was struggling to finish it due to the noise. And she called my name 8+ times i just snapped and told her to shut up. She was having an affair with one of our directors and after the incident, i ended up receiving a message from my manager claiming that i was not paying attention. I know that prior to the incident, many hours before that, i decided to put earphones on and listen to music to help me focus on what I was trying to do. But this incident was different because i was not listening to music and was just trying to badly finish something. Anyway, the email said i was listening to music and not paying attention. My manager told me that it was the director who initiated it after the incident with his girl. I am upset. I just felt like it was not fair on my part. Considering that she is a drama queen, everyone was asking how she was and no one asked how i was or why i snapped. I dont know if i was in the wrong entirely but it just felt like i looked bad and i am worried that people will start disliking me because of the incident. Please tell me how to handle this situation. I am very upset about it......
I wouldn't worry too much about it and honestly think she looks more like the idiot then you. What she went running to her boyfriend rather than talking to you... If I was the other people on the office I would be judging her so I wouldn't worry too much about it
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I am a gemini. I know that generally, i try to be nice to everyone. But somehow, i also realized that i am short tempered. In some cases, when I accidentally show my temper, i think it causes people to have a different view of me and simply forget about how nice i've become before they saw/experienced my temper.
I am currently doing very well at work and my co-workers liked me. But yesterday, i snapped at an aries officemate of mine. She kept screaming my name because apparently, a client called me. I was busy doing something and i was struggling to finish it due to the noise. And she called my name 8+ times i just snapped and told her to shut up. She was having an affair with one of our directors and after the incident, i ended up receiving a message from my manager claiming that i was not paying attention. I know that prior to the incident, many hours before that, i decided to put earphones on and listen to music to help me focus on what I was trying to do. But this incident was different because i was not listening to music and was just trying to badly finish something. Anyway, the email said i was listening to music and not paying attention. My manager told me that it was the director who initiated it after the incident with his girl. I am upset. I just felt like it was not fair on my part. Considering that she is a drama queen, everyone was asking how she was and no one asked how i was or why i snapped. I dont know if i was in the wrong entirely but it just felt like i looked bad and i am worried that people will start disliking me because of the incident. Please tell me how to handle this situation. I am very upset about it......