Grand Water Trine People, what's it like?

I'm just curious as to how y'all cope with emotional difficulties... like when you miss someone or go through a breakup. How do you react toward that person and how do you feel? How long does it take you to get over something?

I recently pulled up the chart of a friend with whom I had a falling out. He has a grand water trine with Jupiter in Scorpio in the 2nd House, Saturn in Pisces in the 5th House, and Mars in Cancer in the 9th House.

This is something I found from cafe astrology on grand trines:
"The character traits and talents conferred by the Grand Trine come so easily and naturally to the native that he or she may not understand why these things don't naturally come to others. Tense or challenging aspects may be necessary to provide the motivation to develop or grow these traits. The native is self-sufficient in these areas of life. This is not to say they don't need people - they do - but that the circumstances surrounding these energies flow easily and naturally to them. It is a harmonious and very stable configuration."

I also found this from astro:
"A grand trine in water indicates a deep reservoir of emotional support when we need it. In times of emotional difficulty or trauma, I suspect that your emotional strength will support you. In psychological terminology this is known as the ability to 'self-soothe', which enables you to find comfort within, even when you are feeling abandoned or alone. This is the resource that enables people to get through difficult emotional periods in their lives without cracking at the seams or falling apart."

Is this accurate?

What a great question. I hope someone gives us an answer we can own. I have a T-square myself, so am no help here

I have it and it takes a bit longer than I want it to be. The deeper the pain is the more it takes time. I see it as a wolf licking its own wounds. but to be honest, sometimes i just want to shout ..fuck it can somebody just do the healing for me and make me better... its not a pretty sight when its under process but its goin

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I have it and it takes a bit longer than I want it to be. The deeper the pain is the more it takes time. I see it as a wolf licking its own wounds. but to be honest, sometimes i just want to shout ..fuck it can somebody just do the healing for me and make me better... its not a pretty sight when its under process but its goin

Ahhh, thank you for responding! 🙂

I'm kind of combining what I've read and what you posted... I'm assuming the grand trine gives someone the ability to cope on their own because they are so strong and stable in their emotions. Do you rarely go to others for help or advice, or just to vent? Would you say that you're particularly good at keeping yourself composed when going through a really difficult time? Like acting fine and happy on the outside.