Have you ever found that when you

Begin to heal or move on from the past-new opportunities in love present themselves? Can you please share your expierences. 🙂

Eeeuuu, Winter .. your avatar is disgusting

Posted by winterwrought
An opportunity in love? Not quite. Though an opportunity regardless. Perhaps as a friendship/companionship... a meeting of minds and candor of soul(s).

Began here: on DXP, and as a google search. Was seeking advice for dealing with Taurean women (as I was nearly involved with one, at work, last summer). Ended before it even got to a friendship stage, but I digress. Distanced myself from her, was rather bitter for quite awhile after, and expected nothing significant to come about in my life (especially from here). So... I stuck around here for the rest of last year, and was happened upon by a lovely lady near last year's end (whom I am grateful to have met and privileged to correspond with). If it wasn't for me finding this site seeking/soliciting advice for last year's incident, I might have never known this woman to exist (or for her to ever know of me).

It's quite... something. How stumbling upon a place for one reason, has people/things stumbling upon me (for reasons of their own). Life is strange like that. But not in a bad way. *shrug*

Winter-your beginning analogy is what struck me the most from your whole post. 🙂 In my expierence I do mean love. After battling lost love for many years, to me it seems, at the most inoportune time, new love presents itself.
You are the one who is probably right though. Since a meeting of the mind, and candor of the soul is just what I need at this point. Not another loving relationship.

I do agree that you "stumble" upon things at just the right moment when you need them. That is the universe coming into play.

Posted by winterwrought
^^ How so?

Here is what I am speaking of-
A long tremetulous relationship with an Aqua. It finally ended, bcus I took my power back. Then a short stint with a Libra.
Then low and behold-two of my guy friends who are both Taurus both tell me they like me. One I went for coffee with already the other-doesn't have the balls to ask me out maybe? I am not sure.
It is ok, bcus at this time I do not want to be with anyone. I want to be me. My soul needs more cleansing and being involved with someone would only cloud my judgement. And the progress I have made within myself this far.
It sounds a little selfish but I am being selfish now. Hope that makes sense. 🙂

Posted by Claro de Luna
Yeah, I think members of the opposite sex (or the same if you're gay) can sense it a mile off when you're 'ready'. 🙂

Im not necessarily ready, but I am more intune and awake than I have ever been before.

Posted by NikkiMse1978

Posted by Claro de Luna
Yeah, I think members of the opposite sex (or the same if you're gay) can sense it a mile off when you're 'ready'. 🙂

Im not necessarily ready, but I am more intune and awake than I have ever been before.

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I'm sure that confidence is shining on some hotties like a radar, "oh she looks happy and hot lemme go talk to her". Never fails. Thats how I met my bf. His radar was shining and I flew in like a fighter jet and claimed my spot.

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Posted by NikkiMse1978

Posted by Claro de Luna
Yeah, I think members of the opposite sex (or the same if you're gay) can sense it a mile off when you're 'ready'. 🙂

Im not necessarily ready, but I am more intune and awake than I have ever been before.

I'm sure that confidence is shining on some hotties like a radar, "oh she looks happy and hot lemme go talk to her". Never fails. Thats how I met my bf. His radar was shining and I flew in like a fighter jet and claimed my spot.

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You are so right! A guy friend of mine said to me last night "You know the number one thing a man looks for in a woman....is confidence." 🙂