My Aries 25 (w/ Libra moon - Aries venus) boyfriend broke up with me 31 (Cancer w/ Libra moon - Virgo venus) 3 weeks ago and I have not heard from him since. Our year and a half relationship was loving but everything change when I got pregnant and lost the baby after two months. I went into a depression and he was insensitive at times so the last month of our relationship was hard for the both of us. I met his insensitivity with anger and lashed out at him a few times. The final argument we had was ugly and he said that he needed a break from the stress so he left to go stay at his moms. All of his things are still here and he still has his key to my place. I have since packed his things because the constant reminder of him was so painful. I've given him his space I've only reached out to him once to give him a voicemail left on my phone from his job but he has not replied. Since he's been gone I have been in counseling to deal with the loss of the baby and doing a lot of self improvement. We both made mistakes but I'm ready to move beyond the past. I want a fresh start with him but I haven't heard anything from him in almost a month and it's heartbreaking feeling abandoned. I've read that Aries rarely return to past relationships but our situation is complex. With all of his things being here I still have a glimmer of hope that we'll get back together. But I'm in this murky gray area not knowing what he wants to do. The reason why I was so hard to get along with because I was grieving not because I did not love him. I just want him to understand that I was in the deepest depression and that took me out of character but I'm working diligently on healing those wounds. Should I continue to wait for his return or give up? And how can I reconcile things with him when he does return?
