We were in a long distance relationship for almost 2 and a half years. We both have been always very loyal to each other. About 7 months back we met and I was rude to her and we had a couple of spats. After that also we were in touch. Then, from last one month it had slowed down from her side. I asked her the reason, if she was seeing someone. According to her I was very cold and emotionless all through, and since the arguments had happened she has steadily changed her mind. She just wants to be friends as she still likes me.
I couldn't take this. So first I sent her a video apology message after that we used to interact almost everyday, little bit. In the mean time I arranged for visa, travel tickets, everything else to gallop on my way. But she came to know from someone that I'd be coming and messaged me saying "It'd be a wastage of time and money". I told her that my tickets were confirmed. She felt pressurized and told me she'd disappear. She also said that this is not the right time, we could meet later and she is totally off me. I wished her good luck for her life and to get the right guy, since then we didn't exchange any message.
I am planning to visit her in a couple of months. This time I won't tell anyone about my visit. I have to see her once, I feel that way I could get her back.
She is a divorcee and mother of two and I was never married.
No offense to your pain, but I think any woman (sign doesn't matter) would be turned off if the man she thought she was special to was rude to her on first meeting and then arguments followed after that. Who needs this drama. Was there any romantic chemistry when you finally met each other after all those months?
It was our third meeting. Yes there was good chemistry. Arguments had happened only in that trip, afterwards we used to talk very normally for around 6 months. After that she started avoiding me and on asking she gave that justification.
I couldn't take this. So first I sent her a video apology message after that we used to interact almost everyday, little bit. In the mean time I arranged for visa, travel tickets, everything else to gallop on my way. But she came to know from someone that I'd be coming and messaged me saying "It'd be a wastage of time and money". I told her that my tickets were confirmed. She felt pressurized and told me she'd disappear. She also said that this is not the right time, we could meet later and she is totally off me. I wished her good luck for her life and to get the right guy, since then we didn't exchange any message.
I am planning to visit her in a couple of months. This time I won't tell anyone about my visit. I have to see her once, I feel that way I could get her back.
She is a divorcee and mother of two and I was never married.
Please suggest your view points.