Dealing with a taurus

I am a quiet Pisces and to top it all off, shy. I met this taurus guy that I really like but sometimes I am left thinking, wondering and then i end up judging him. We fight a lot and he shuts down on me quite a lot too. But the communication is consistent....and i kinda left it to him co i got tured of initiating. I'm not the "go with the flow" type and that's where the problems arise. Any advice from fishes that's dated a taurus man or currently dating one? And any ideas on how you make it work from a Pisces point of view? kinda tried the taurus way but not working lol

Thank you Aleese76. With him he hasn't been intimidating at all. If anything; he's been so understanding and ends up apologizing if he hurts my feelings. I try to give him space and time but he won't let me do that coz he feels like I'm running away from him. We talk and text but he still complains that I stress him out. I read so much abt them being sloowww an needing time to themselves and I tried to do all that but I thought maybe there was something different that I can try. I don't wanna lose him...but I see him slipping away

I have tried to talk to him but the last time I did that; he took it that I was rushing. He wants me to go with the flow lol. How do you go with the flow when you don't know where you stand with somebody? How do I check the moons? I'm new on here and don't know all that much abt signs. My birthday is March 17th and he's May 4th

Taurus typically does not act flexible or seek middle ground. They are unfortunately prone to tantrums if they dont get their way, and will gladly overlook major commonalities in order to fret over stupid shit.

They truly are the "throw out the baby with the bathwater" types, so please tread lightly.

There are exceptions to this, but this is my experience with them.

Also, beware if he is devoted to asshole friends. They will choose asshole friends over a meaningful relationship with a decent human being.

Thanks; I wasn't born in the USA and might be really hard and tricky for me to get all that info. I guess I will just give it time and see what happens. He told me before that he wasn't going anywhere and that I wouldn't get rid of him that easily....maybe he already put me in his life and I just need to give it time

Posted by ScorpioFish
Taurus typically does not act flexible or seek middle ground. They are unfortunately prone to tantrums if they dont get their way, and will gladly overlook major commonalities in order to fret over stupid shit.

They truly are the "throw out the baby with the bathwater" types, so please tread lightly.

There are exceptions to this, but this is my experience with them.

. He is so stubborn and will not change his mind once he has decided on something and I don't let stuff go either....Maybe that's why he says I'm crazy and I stress him out lol. Still learning tho' coz this is my first time dealing with one.

Posted by ScorpioFish
Also, beware if he is devoted to asshole friends. They will choose asshole friends over a meaningful relationship with a decent human being.

thanks ScorpioFish; I don't really know if he has some and if at all he is devoted to them. We haven't established how serious the relationship is....so far we just like each other. So hopefully he is not devoted to them

Stubborn as hell, and the worst is when they are clearly wrong and refuse to change.

Drives me batshit crazy.

Like I said, beware of the asshole friends. They will cling bitterly to them if you challenge the reasoning behind such ridiculous devotion to bad people.

They are not all this bad, but some can certainly be so.

Posted by ScorpioFish
Stubborn as hell, and the worst is when they are clearly wrong and refuse to change.

Drives me batshit crazy.

Like I said, beware of the asshole friends. They will cling bitterly to them if you challenge the reasoning behind such ridiculous devotion to bad people.

They are not all this bad, but some can certainly be so.

thanks ScorpioFish....will look out for them and hope he don't have none lol. So far I haven't really seen anything

Ya!