Hurricane relationship Pisces man Scorpio woman

I messed up big time, That much i know. I am a Pisces Man she is a Scorpio Woman, It was all great till i showed my soft side and she bit in and ripped me apart. Is this typical behavior for a Scorpio woman. It seems very over, and from all i know she is not coming back. I want her back, but not the crazy woman she turned into, the amazing woman she was. She would still love me if i hadn't slipped into that moody person i can sometimes be. So many things i did wrong, but there really is something worth saving? I need help. She is to stubborn to see what she has lost, i became her sons daddy, i miss him a ton, she has issues i know, more than i care to elaborate on, but when it was good it was great, but now, she is moving out. she doesn't want to talk to me, says i keep pushing her away. How can i show her my strong side without looking pathetic?

I would recommend posting this on the scorpio board, if you haven't done so already.

Well one, yes Scorpios are very stubborn & selfish but they are not always this way just for the hell of it. Whatever it is that you did or said to your Scorpio must have really hurt her heart. And so she's responding & paying her revenge to you by using her "verbal" skills to make you feel the same kind of pain that she felt. Scorpios love soooo hard & when they feel that they've been betrayed by you or feel resentful for investing so much time into someone that turned out to annoy them more than satisfy them, it messes with their sense of believing they are good at picking out certain people to actually love (not lust). Sure, your mood swings & wishy-ness bothered her b/c relationship security & emotional security is very important to a Scorpio. They need for their partners to be 100% secure in everything they do so that they won't have to play "therapist" with their partners. She's saying all of these mean things to you (without any guilt), acting like she doesn't care & like she has no care in the world for you b/c somewhere a long the line you gave her the assumption that you were doing all of the same things to her when she was actually tuned in & waiting patiently for you to get it together. But now that she feels your time has run out, she will put up an enormous wall against you & will use every skill she has to project some of that same pain back to you.

Her turning into a crazy woman didn't just happen over night. She was already crazy, you were just the one who brought it out of her & probably more often than others. And hey, like I'd tell anyone (man or woman). Anytime a breakup happens, always be aware of what YOU did wrong first instead of always focusing on what the other person did wrong. But at the same time, always believe that when someone up & leaves you high & dry, that it was THEIR loss, not yours. After all, you know deep down that you loved this girl from the bottom of your heart & that you would've done anything for her, especially since a child has come from the relationship, but if she doesn't realize what she's lost, she never will if you keep projecting that it was more YOUR loss than it was hers. Let her move out, let her move on & let her miss you. It's okay if you miss her & if you're sad & if you start to realize what you could've done differently but at the same time, if she really felt you were worth waiting for, she would've waited & been more patient with you & knew deep down that it wasn't her, it was you

Don't beat yourself up over this. I am a firm believer that A RELATIONSHIP WORTH HAVING IS A RELATIONSHIP WORTH SAVING. Too often, now days do people give up on their partners too quickly. She wasn't patient enough & in her mind, she won't feel guilty for this either b/c she truly feels that she waited on you to get it together long enough. Scorps. like the real deal in love. They don't like bouncing back & forth, always breaking up just to make up again. They don't mind their partners being moody or down b/c of something the average & normal person would be down about but if their partners are always moody or are constantly acting through their negative emotions, she will see this as petty & childish. Like I said, she doesn't want to play the role as your "therapist" or "teacher." She doesn't want to spend the whole relationship waiting on you to be who & what she wants you to be, but instead she'd rather spend most of her time actually having a solid & secure relationship with you.

And hell yes, Scorpios can be very moody & very pessimistic & very negative in their relationships just like anyone else. But the difference is, Scorpios aren't this way when things are going great b/c they're not idiots & don't get into relationships just to back out again. Once they're in, they are IN. Scorpios usually become moody or start projecting negativity when insecurity is involved or when the other person starts to create doubts that the relationship is going as smoothly & as nicely as they'd like.