Leo Female / Cancer Male relationship

First of all i'm a Sun in Cancer, Moon in Virgo, Leo in Mercury, and Cancer in Venus. So here is my story and i'm looking for advice.

I went on a date with a leo female, never met her before, it was a blind date. I was very apprehensive because i don't really go on dates ever. I'm a typical cancer, i kinda stay in my room as much as possible. On the date we were doing well which was at her place surprisingly enough, i generally thought she was into me and near the end of the date i asked for a kiss and i got plenty. I was really happy because i have low self esteem for completely unknown reasons. I asked for a second date when i was there and she was into it. she said she wanted to see me again. Some time passes and i can't stop thinking of this girl. And here is were the worst part of cancer comes out. I couldn't keep my mind off her. I did my absolute best not to annoy her but i started to keep trying to message her, like, hey i had a good time and i wanted to see her again. after a while, she said no, and we should only be friends. I told her that it was cool, and i didn't go in with expectations. She kept being really unresponsive with me. So i messaged her more. I thought she thought i wasn't good looking so i sent her pictures. Then she blocked me. So i sent her a message on Facebook. And said i'm really sorry and left it at that. She said, it was fine and then blocked me. So i wrote her a letter, and drew a really sweet cartoon asking her to hang out and that i'm sorry. and she texted me to stop once more.

It looks really really bad. I got obsessed. but i'm not a bad looking guy and i'm smart and i wasn't trying to hook up. i just really wanted to see her again. She apologized for leading me on and said she was really good at being single. I am really heart broken. I know she got my letter cause she screamed at me in all capital letters through a text.

I don't know what to do or think. Is this normal for a leo female. What can i do to fix my neediness, i really hate it, and understand it. I just can't help it. I keep thinking that she's gonna text me back. but i know she won't and i'm really sad.

This whole thing has lasted like 3 weeks

Jupiter and moon are both virgo

Posted by KinglyCrab
Read.
https://m.reddit.com/r/asktrp/comments/3wzuet/newbies_read_this_a_comprehensive_guide_to_the/

That site made me laugh

All I can say is enjoy the sweet memory if that night and move on.

Posted by KinglyCrab

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Posted by KinglyCrab
Read.
https://m.reddit.com/r/asktrp/comments/3wzuet/newbies_read_this_a_comprehensive_guide_to_the/

That site made me laugh

Some of it is bullshit some is valid. To fucking lazy to make a list for him. The stuff that isn't blatantly clear that is the authors opinion is true. Don't be yourself. Be a the best version of yourself. Anyone who waits for life to happen to them doesn't deserve anything. I'm learning the hard way.This is why I won't deal with shy women anymore. I just don't find it attractive and I now know what the people I liked must have felt. Don't blame them or care anymore. So incase you want to troll me like the other shit stains be prepared for blockage. But if you want to be civil I will be happy to comply.

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JFC no need to get your knickers in a twist. As a comprehensive list, that site is gonna get a lot a guys in trouble. Sure it may temporarily up the game to get your foot in the door, but no woman, and I do mean a grown up woman, is going to put up with all that.

@kinglycrab

I agree with your statement about it being a numbers game. The same goes for women, there are a TON of fishes out there, millions of people on the planet. You don't have to settle for the first guy who tosses you a crumb.

The fortune cookie truth, is that NO ONE is going to be happy with you, until you can look in the mirror and love that person. The trick is to grow into the person you want to love, without changing who you are.