Libra lady

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cmc
@cmc
12 Years

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I wonder if all you lovely Libras and people who have libras in their life, would give me some advice on how to keep the peace with a libra lady?

I've known this lady virtually all my life, since the age of about 7 and in the past she was such a lovely person, granted she had her moments but generally up until the age of me being 18 she was nice. She is alot older than me (she's in the 40s, I'm in my 20s) The problems seemed to have started once a man (suprise!) who we both mutually know came on the scene. Now this man is married and is also in his 40s and he's been trying to pursue me romantically, but I stopped him in his tracks because A. I don't date married men and B. he's not my type at all. I've made this perfectly clear to him but still whenever he sees me he tries to flirt etc! I see him as a middle aged man having some kind of mid life crisis. Now Libra lady has secretly liked this man for quite a while, I could tell, she doesn't seem too bothered about him being married and she uses their friendship to get close to him, although he still only sees her as a friend, being a man he doesn't understand that she likes him as more than that.

Now don't get me wrong I don't agree with someone chasing after a man that's married, but at the end of the day it's not for me to judge or really get involved. The problem is Libra lady is involving me, she has become very mean towards me, sharp and cold. The thing I don't understand is that I've made it perfectly clear that I'm not `competition` to her because I really have no interest in this man, I'm just upset that she has decided to turn against me just because he's trying to pursue me, which I can't do anything about, I've made it clear I don't like him, what more can I do? Also I don't know why shes getting so upset over a man that belongs to another woman anyway?

How can I show her that I'm really not interested? She's making life very hard and to be honest I just want the old her back that I used to know.
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Dafna79
@Dafna79
14 Years

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I would stop talking about it, do not mention the issue anymore, act like you always have towards her but continue to be consistent with your actions, meaning if the problem is this guy's attentions then continue to ignore him and make perfectly clear to her that you are not interested.
If your priority is to be back to normal terms with her then I would stop talking about this guy and maybe ask her advice about someone you are really interested in, talk to her about a date you recently went on, a guy you just met, etc