libra the shadow side

Having been involved with a librian,made me realise what two-faced,hypocrites you really are. Those stupid games of trying to get us to fall in love with you,the charm, the flirtatousness, the playing off with another ,to make us jealous. The great lovers of truth, what a joke. You ain`t perfect and we are all human at the end of the day. Still,it doesn't matter how intelligent you think you are, their will always be someone more intelligent than you. DEEP COMPASSION MY BOYS.

195,

Who pissed in your Cheerios— Nobody on this board, I think? Your generalizations of an entire group of people shows who's intelligent and who's not!

That was a stupid mistake you just made.

If you care to delve any deeper into this subject, maybe I can help you understand where you went wrong. Don't just come on here and be smug and bitter because a Libra upset your world. Why don't you try talking out your frustrations rationally and calmly and I will be more than glad to help you understand me and then we can all be enlightened? I'm not even sure if I understand me, but I'll give it a shot! Calm down and give me some details, ok?

Why is it when people get angry they always want to hit and run? Follow that anger or whatever your feeling through...have a spine and deal with your emotions. I have made a jerk out of myself and nobody is perfect, that goes to the original poster. Your not perfect! Why do you insist others must live up to your expectations? Or maybe you are perfect; let's say you are for the hell of it. I think you believe because you are capable of being perfect that others are too. I would say your in for a long and unhappy life. We all f*** up sometimes. Maybe the Libra that hurt you f*** up and needs a little forgiveness. Is that possible? Or maybe that Libra doesn't even understand what you are so angry at. That could also be a factor.

I like to get to the bottom of things and sometimes you can only do that by calling the hand. Show your cards and then we can continue the next round.

Boy 195, you really sound angry! Not a good way to be. I have been through anger management and really the bottom line was...just because someone doe or doesn't do something you like, doesn't give you the right to flame like that.

I should have signed my name to such a retort!!!

Shadowy Susan
Libra who loves to learn!

Hey 195, go for it. I understand, librans can be damned annoying, rude and fickle (confusing) sometimes, it is frustrating. I dont blame you for being hurt, you need to get it out there. The meanie broke you heart, how else can you act—
Love is with you,
210.5

Oh yeah, i should have signed my name, its ML, the woman who loves women. Do i care what people think? I dont think so!!!
Homophobes!
Seeya,
🙂

Oops, i lost my decorum there for a second, dont know what came over me!

205 Your comments have prove my point. How idealistic you really are. Many of you frozen in your own feeling natures, misinterpret emotion. I am realistic, that of human nature, and that no one person is wholly one thing. A brain with out a heart, like the tin man in the wizard of oz, either rusts into rigid paralysis or destroys the world. It may be socially exceptable to be an excellent intellect but it's psychologically very unhealthy and sooner or later the price is paid for such a violation of nature. Therefore you must try and trying means alot, to understand the feeling level of life and to respect what you dont understand. Without expressing emotion, there would be no human realionships, no affection or no love. Thanks for your imput, peace and harmony to all librians, once again, I feel deep compassion not hatred, anger or bitterness towards you.

There is always three sides to every story- your, mine, and then there's the truth! I can't make any sense out of your situation if all your going to do is make innuendos and throw insults back and forth. Since your comments were directed at me specifically, I would say you have a distorted idea of reality. We don't know each other well enough for you to feel you know who I am. I also feel confused about the comments and feel you crossed my boundary I have in place. It takes time to know some one and your summing me up in a paragaraph. You need patients with people and to not be in such a damn hurry! I feel your probably a very demanding and unreasonable person at times. You huff and puff until you blow people away. I also feel your courages and full of energy, proud, direct and strong. Nobody is without faults including me and you. I reckognize my own, and I also know that I have a good heart etc...I'm not going to run down my personal profile for you. I have loved once or twice and lost, so have most people. I don't think anyone gets out of here (life) without taking their share of pain and suffering in relationships. What happens to us all is we survive, and we learn something from it (hopefully), and that in turn makes us a more equipt for whatever comes next. No, my heart isn't frozen, if anything I am over emotional and overly sensititve to feelings. What ever you feel I probably feel it twice as much(Mars in Cancer). If it doesn't come off that way, it is because I keep it well guarded for protection. It is not that I dislike people and choose to keep them at arms lenghth, but I feel safer not getting involved with most. Like I said it is better not to have anything then to have something you care so much taken away. For me it is better to be without it. If I was to find the right one, then I would be all consumed and my life would be whole again. Until that happens I will stay on my own path. For now I choose show my intellect and the emotinal side I'll share with the right person, ok! If that bothers you, then don't talk with me. I have other sources.

I'm interested to know, how excactly are you going to find the right one, if you wont open your heart and be emotionally honest for the fear of being hurt?

I think I have tried! How open do you want me to be. I am not going to write something like Scorpio 25 wrote! I would only do that behing closed doors with the curtain closed!

I don't do perfomances like that; I certainly wouldn't get that intimate with abunch of people I don't really know??

I was kind of hoping for a miracle, I guess.

"I was kind of hoping for a miracle, I guess."

Oh, it will happen I am sure about that. I have never been without men in my life or wanting to be in it. It's just that I want what I want, and I will wait as long as it takes to find the right one! I will not settle for second best, ever!

I know what I am looking for and it is only a matter of time. Once that happens they will have all of my heart, and I will let them in to places no one has ever been before!

PS: Must be passionate! Love without passion is no love at all!!!

Susan