Pisces guy suddenly seems changed :(

So there is this guy I who had asked me out 5 years back but I had refused since I hardly knew him(Although this incident is not of much significance now)
We happened to come to the same college to study in another place. We stayed there for over three years but hardly said hii to each other ever although he had come upto see talk to me on the first day and seemed happy to see me. Towards the end, I had started initiating small formal conversations with him because I had started liking him a bit. Now after the degree he chose to intern at the same place as me taking my suggestion,instead of going with his friends(though we rarely happen to meet because we have different sections and time in office).
He showed keen interest in me till about a month ago. He would come to my favourite haunts in the hope of bumping into me and he told me so. Now when I have started really liking him and asking him to meet, he has suddenly changed. He would sometime text me when I dont for a long time but always cancels plans of our meetings. He puts up pictures with a girl but tells me she is just a friend. While his relationship status has changed to 'Dating" on social media, he would joke that he wants a girl in his life, to me. He is a good person, so i dont know why he should lie to me that he is single if he isnt. Also we have hardly talked in the last 10 days. We are still a bit formal with each other.
PS- Of late, when he texts me himself, he immediately starts acting uninterested. Till a month over me, he was stalking me so bad, how could he change so fast??
I dont know what to make of the situation.😢

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Hmm same happen with me or i could say a worst than this..well i seriously don't know why they are like that..first they show interest and when we start liking them and share it with them..they start behaving differently_—_—.They Don't even miss us we are nothing to them.

please help 😭

I am feeling so bad. After ages, I had actually started liking a guy. And he behaved as if he read my mind. Showing sooo much interest and in a month it's poof. 😭
Plus why should he lie to me. Though even in between he gave me mixed signals.
I am a virgo by the way.
Dont know whats wrong with this sign.

Don't know dear..i wish someone can help us and explain why they behave like this..

You know what.it may be like pisces looking for a dream girl types girl..they are attracted to us because of our looks or whatever and when they start knowing us as a person..we don't fit in their dream girl zone so they start ignoring us and whenever we ask them what's wrong they said nothing.That's where we should get out of this one sided relationship but it is very very hard..

You refused him for 5 years. When you first got to HIS college, he was glad.

You had no problems with blowing him off.



He has finally given up on you ... but, now suddenly you changed and want his attention.


Typical behavior of an attention whore who believes she is entitled. Hopefully, he realizes that you're a bad person and stays away.

P-angel mam u r back..

People I guess I misconveyed. I said no to him 5 years back once and in between we hardly talked. I was never mean or bad to him. Rather of late, I did enough to make him feel I am fond of him. I was just not rushing things up. cz I was afraid of making an overshow of my interest.

People I guess I misconveyed. I said no to him 5 years back once and in between we hardly talked. I was never mean or bad to him. Rather of late, I did enough to make him feel I am fond of him. I was just not rushing things up. cz I was afraid of making an overshow of my interest.

Ok so me and my male Bestfriend just had a talked about this. Apprently men have sensative egos and by you rejecting him that's when the "conquer then leave" game started. It became a game to him because you had the "nerve" to reject him. Guys will remember every rejection they had no matter how long ago it was.

He noticed that you finally showed interest after he "act" like he was still interested in you. I'm sorry but you got played it was a game to him. He pursued you again for his own ego and went out his way to do so.

I actually have dealt with someone like that. A guy to come back hot and heavy to pursue but I remained guarded because I sensed it was a ego thing for him. Once I saw glimpses of his true colors I ignored his calls and disappeared on him.

Just take this as a lesson and the next time you reject a "boy" and you reveal his true intentions keep your emotions in check and stay guarded. Eventually they will get tired of chasing you if you won't budge.