Question #2 for Libra's

Please forgive this 2nd post, but I forgot to ask another important question to all you Libra's in Lib Land:

Is physical appearance all that important to you people?

The Libra guy I spoke of in previous post that I met over internet kept pushing me for photos. I understand that knowing who you're talking to makes internet conversations more intimate, but I wanted to wait until we got to know one another better before going the "you show me yours, and I'll show you mine" route.

Long story short. I finally got fed up with his begging, so I caved in to his demands & sent photos. No brag, just fact. I have been blessed with looks and the bod to match. (I modeled for 7 years.)Now that he has this information, he seems to be intimidated instead of delighted. He questions my motives for wanting to be with him instead of some muscled hunk male model.

I'm crazy about this guy. What gives with male Libra's? Are most this difficult to figure out— Am I barking up the wrong tree? No matter how hard I try, I just can't seem to make this man happy for more than a day at a time. Then it's something I've said, didn't say, or said but didn't say it right....

HELP!!!

A Gemini who's going bald from pulling out hair!!

L.L.

hello friendly gem..

Well, touch his soul with your words. He wants to hear from you, the qualities in himself for which you luv him, so that he can heighten the experience for you. He realizes that you must also enjoy yourself in order for him to enjoy himself. I think he just wants to please you in some way, and make you know that you are queen.

The Libran experience is heightened by aesthetics, so he won't be intimidated by your beauty, in fact, he might luv you more for it, but I do feel that he wants to make sure that you are real for him, and not bullbutterting around. When a libra really loves he/she loves with her soul..you must be receptive and genuine for him also. Tell him how much you luv him, he will begin to trust you more.

As for moodiness, well, I'm moody sometimes too. I think this might be a Libran trait? Since we're usually extremists about everything. To know the extremes is the only way to know the balance. So yes, we have been the saint and its' opposite before. I wouldn't worry about it. When he comes to a lull in his life, he's just recharging..chill with him, and he'll come back to you refreshed.

Most Libra's are cool. We try to maintain our balance with life and all around. That's if you are a true Libra. Libra's are adaptable, meaning.....if this guy was really interested in you, the way you appear to be interested in him, he would do whatever it takes to BALANCE this realtionship. Unless he is naieve, he should be able to notice what is going on, and ease up a little.
Do not use him as an example of a true libra.

most libs I know date hunchback women with bad breath and they love them for there personalitys.

hahahahaaaha ! Sounds like the libs you know should be on The Jerry Springer Show ! I know of none with that personna.
However, it is true that we love all for who they are and not necessarily their looks.

What kind of jerk is this guy? That's MY first inclination...

It doesn't sound good to me if he's begging for your photos then has to question your ulterior motives and as far as the internet goes...beware! I'm not trying to be your mother here, however, there have been a lot of psychos looking for girlfriends in the the past. I say move on.

sloane has a good point. I must agree with her looks are not what they are cracked up to be give me a woman with a brain anyday

Thanks to all of you for taking the time to respond to my questions.

Unlike most boards, you people seem to be in possession of brains plus a wonderful sense of humor. More reasons to add to my growing list of reasons why I always fall for Libra's!!

Speaking of brains....

I did the modeling to pay my way through school. I soon will have a degree in....get this....criminal psychology, so I also have a hint of intelligence...It's just that attempting to know someone through the net can not only be challenging, but tricky (and yes, I agree, somewhat risky.)

After years of refusing to believe in astrology, I met someone at college who introduced me to the ?reality? side of Zodiac personality profiles. Through practical application, he convinced me there was something to it. Call me lazy, but I wanted to skip delving into the vast majority of meaningless books and go straight to the horse's mouth, so to speak, to obtain some legit information. Who could possibly be more legit than Libra's themselves?

Taking the risk of being monotonous with all my questions (I reiterate, I'm new to Astrology so forgive my ignorance) could you give me some specifics as to what is most important to Libs in a relationship?

From what I've heard, they love to debate on significant subjects of importance. So do I. When this guy & I get one going, he wants to back out, shut up, and change the subject. (I'm beginning to wonder if this man is even a Libra!)

Again, thanks for the input. I so appreciate hearing your thoughts. Am hanging on every word and learning a lot.

L.L.

PS. Sloane, you can be my parental voice of reason any time. Lord knows that from time to time I get too adventurous & daring for my own good!

Libs are in love with love. We're all sensualists.. that means walks in the park, nights strolling on the beach, horse rides together, luxurious massages for each other when we're both wanting just to touch, romantically gazing into your eyes..connecting with your soul, becoming only one, harmony, spices and spicy smells (ignite me personally..not necessarily floral..more of deep, woody smells)..sandal wood, aromatic orange/wood spice.. and lots of change.

..now for the goodies..we all need truth, sincerity, honesty, pleasure, and good 'ol straight talk. Poetic surprizes are a plus! 😉