Virgo men ??

I am a Leo girl and my ex ex was a Virgo who sadly passed away , 10 years ago . I am so enchanted by virgos and I get along with them well . We always seem to know what the other are thinking .

But this is a situation I need help on from. On what I should do next ¥¥

Now I am seeing / friends with this Virgo guy who in the first one hour of meeting him I did not like at all!

He was fidgety and not very friendly and quite grumpy.
We met in a members club with my friends and his friends .
At first I was interested in his mate who liked me and my intentions was to get with his friend an -Aries .

What I didn't relize , I did not see him properly meaning actually look at him ! His back was turned while talking to the Aries guy . I thought mmm not bad looking at all! When I asked him is starsign he said Virgo.

Then he invited us to an after party at his place - I relized that more we were talking more I felt depth in his presence( body language) . I did not need to talk much of debating politics or try to Pick out eachothers interests . While his friend was getting on my nerves asking me to sit with him etc . I stayed put danced and kept being next to Virgo

That deep stair Virgos have was taking place all night ,and while I was dancing . I could see he was getting board with the other conversations people were having .

We all joined a new conversation a topic turned to weddings - probably I brought it up , I really don't know lol can't remember more like !

I said "I don't want a big wedding when I tie the knot!"
Then he stairs straight at me and asked " well what if ur husband has friends and family he wants to invite?"

Then he says after a hour or so " will we have this this band at our wedding ?" (Can't remember the name )

So when ur high on Charlie and drinking I suppose people say the weirdest things and I don't take notice but it's a very Virgo thing to do .

What they say in one sentence means a whole paragraph and meaning from my experience and it can be very intense.


He has a very demanding job that he is very serious about - anyway getting to my problem

Finally!!!

So at the end of the night he wanted me to go to bed with him but I refused and left with my friends.

I got his number from a friend- I said "what did u think of me contacting u " he replied " I thought it was sweet " when arriving at his place

We have same family upbringing and shared story's he gave me advise I did to him aswell .

His other friend I had just met was giving me praises like saying we're did u find a girl like her she is a keeper etc.

Then he said to me " you don't ask anyone what they do ? " I said " I forget or I simply have no Interest etc "

He said nothing then later he suddenly said " I hate when u meet someone and they ask

"oh what do you do?"

WAIT THERE IS MORE

So we ended up going back to his place again .
We talked out our parents and bits of our life story's and are fears and future.

I told him I like home and I like to celebrate family gatherings Xmas birthday etc so does he agreed.

"You should not have asked me to sleep with u on the first night "

He shrugged his shoulders like as if to say "so?"
Then I replied " I wish I did stay, I could of stayed on ur sofa "

He nodded.

Then I said it was such a shame that u left early for bed and left us all to party
Then he replied " you know why!"

I knew why . Why would he stay while his friend is trying to cop off with me .

Back to our evening


I said " what do you think about sleeping with eachother on the first night ?"

He shrugged his shoulders "nothing wrong with that" Softly pulling my hand

Takes my hand and walked me to the bedroom .

"I am going to make love to you"

Candle Light and jazz music - I am a singer and I sent him some jazz singing that he never mentioned what he thought of it ...

It was very romantic but I had never kissed him before how could I be so sure ?

It was very sensual " take all ur cloaths off one by one I want to see every part of u ur beautiful )this is all while the candles are still burning and music is playing lol )

Then I did the same with him - like in the movies !

Passionate kissing 100 /100
Body 100/100
Perfect !

But he is tired and has to get up in a few hours .

Then he said " I don't Bring girls back home "

I think this is a new one u guys can all start using lol

As I did not believe that for one second

When I got home he asked if I was ok and did I get home safe .
He said
I have just arrived at the most difficult meeting
I did say to him we should have a night in food movies etc .

Then I was struggling with a addictive trait of going out all night and messageing him asking him to meet me after and he was getting annoyed coz i wanted to party all the time and my friend said " why don't u ask him to do something normal for a change?"

So that past week I was having to apologise for my outrageous behaviour. And he always replied

Don't worry . It's fine etc but was distant - a little

He didn't really send much sentences in beginning but they were getting shorter .


It got to the point were It became too much and I turned up at his just to have tea and to return my lighter . I was so drunk and high that he told me to leave and he will call police if I don't he even said u are clingy u go out every night it's very bad what ur doing etc .

He had to get up for work too at 7:30 he was really annoyed

He messaged : please go home and be safe
Don't take anymore drugs please
Sober up etc

The day after I was ashamed
I said sorry and told him I am going away to sort my self

He replied : safe journey and get well soon

He has not messaged and I don't want to speak to him for a while as I am not ready .

But I don't know what to do .
It's too soon to message him . I have been too persistent with needing to get high and party with him nearly every night that o feel he thinks I AMs total nut job !

Please excuse my spelling. I am
Dyslexic

Yawn...

Posted by SensitiveBlues
your spelling is atrocious

What an awful thing to say. She can't help it; try having a little compassion.