Mission

Interesting situation to watch, personally, as I recently left Aquarius ex because she was still remaining consistent contact and continually asking for help from ex of 3 years, despite my feelings around it. It was irresolvable. Having feelings of being used, but know that she is too short-sighted -or- too selfish to make a change. My new approach to balancing the imbalance between us: maintaining a friendship with her as I continue my search for love. I have her over, here and there, to catch up and talk, never make physical contact, sit down in different chairs. I don't think it phases her too much, though I can see that slight pain in her eyes. But the goal isn't to get the one-up on anyone, it's to establish equilibrium. I'm flirting with a Leo these days, woke up to her this morning. I dropped the romantic longing and the hope of a relationship nearly two months ago when I broke up with the Aquarius. She says she understands that we can't work out, but hopes to be a "positive role" in my life. We'll see. She's the Oprah of friendships; she hands the same kind out to everyone. And in a Utopia, I could see the working out. But what looks good on paper sometimes doesn't work well in life. Still care about her and enjoy her presence, so friendship works out in the end.

Posted by Froggie_Woogie
I don't mess with astrology nowadays but you may wanna look up Draconic chart.

How did you find it relevant or useful? Also, why the departure?

So this is mostly for those who consider reincarnation in astrology as a legitimate idea.

My question is, does the soul start at Aries and progress through Pisces, then end?

Or does the soul continue through all the zodiac signs, cycling through the chart many times over, before transcending?

I'm in favor of the latter idea, seeing as I've met "younger" signs (Gemini, Taurus, Aries,) who have a deeper connection and acceptance of reality and terms of existence, than some people under "older" signs, (Capricorn, Aquarius, Pisces).

I have my Jupiter on the cusp of the 10th house and 11th house. By on the cusp, I mean it's a dead 0.03 degrees into the 11th house. Would that entail a Jupiter who affects both 10th and 11th houses?

Can we talk about how both had their moon placed in the 12th house, and their Mars placed in the 8th house?
(Side-topic, JFK has Venus in the 8th house squared Moon, and that talks a lot about cheating and infidelity..)

I recently moved to the whole house system after discovering that it took my Saturn out of the 4th House of family and into the 5th House childhood and self-expression. It never felt right that my Saturn was in the 4th house. "In some way, a child with a 4th House Saturn experiences a home life that is thrown into major disarray: through financial struggles, the loss of a parent (by either death or abandonment), a particularly large family, constant moving, or anything else that could significantly turn things upside down." That's just not me. And I never felt like I had to take on a huge role in the family either.

Once Saturn was moved into the 5th house and I began reading about it, I was like, holy crap that makes sense. I am a working artist who has found success and popularity in creating my artwork, and yet feels like my artwork is a sham and has a hard time expressing myself. Artwork has always felt like hardwork, and same with anything else that has to do with self-expression. Yet, it's something that I felt like I had to do, not like a joyful compulsion but like a destiny that I couldn't change. Right now I'm in the middle of writing an ebook about finding your creative vision, and that is such a Saturn in the 5th house thing to do.

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Posted by AerialView
No they don't.

Aquas are the least known to cheat.

Hahaha, I don't know about that.

Now you know.

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Just based on my experience, I'd say they can make fine cheaters if they're up for it. I knew an Aquarius + Aquarius couple, who both cheated on each other, not knowing the other had cheated on them.

Posted by Undine
"I'm not breaking up with you!" "We are going to be friends forever!"

Basically. I broke up with an Aquarius last Thursday, spent the weekend across the state, and she said she doesn't ever want to lose me from her life. I'm chill with being friends, I care a lot about her. Come home Monday, she "runs into me" at the one place she knew she'd find me in public. Gets teary-eyed, says she can't be there in public, asks me to go for a walk. We sit down on the bench, talk about our futures apart, how much she saw in me and how grateful she is for me, then leans her head on my shoulder. Then she grabs my hand. Then she asks me to tell her if I start seeing someone else. I go to hug her before I leave and she steals a kiss. Now she says we don't have to define ourselves as a label, but she's considering us to be casually "seeing" each other. Things are interesting in the immediate post-breakup realm of the Aquarius, but it'll get clearer as she goes aloof.

Posted by AerialView
No they don't.

Aquas are the least known to cheat.

Hahaha, I don't know about that.

I've noticed a pattern as well. I have had two close Aquarian friends who were both heavy drinkers and have been for years. Yet, still completely functional and high-performing at their jobs. A recent Aquarian acquaintance has admitted to refusing to drink because he recognized that he couldn't handle having one or two. They stand out to me, because they drink as hard or harder, and then wake up and go to work with the same level of intent.

11% aqua.. 19% cap..

This is too funny, I know a Cap girl with placements very similar to yours, who is roommates with an Aries girl with Cap moon. Sorry I don't have any advice, but they also have their problems and I guess this situation isn't too unique. Please don't tell me you used to work together too.

Posted by The_Mad_Hatter
Aquarius men.. end of discussion

No way. I'm friends with two aquarian dudes, and not only do they keep their living spaces clean and tidy, but also aesthetically interesting and enjoyable.

Posted by STILL
All this reaching! smh

Reaching for an understanding, for sure

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Posted by The_eleventh_sign_11
Aquarians get jealous, we are only human....

I think Aquarians are more aware that they are jealous than other signs, I think we are more conscious of our feelings in general. I need to remind myself it’s ok to be jealous and that it’s a human experience we all go through.

My moon is in Scorpio so I feel emotions quite strongly but at the same time my sun is Aquarius and every time I feel something the Aquarius in me is like tsk tsk, you’re weak etc....

But yeh....Aquarians are emotional as treetrunk

Lol hi I can relate to this. I'm just going to copy/paste part of what I typed in my thread because I feel like it applies here. This Aqua lady also has Scorp moon. Shes been playful with me recently but I pretty sure she did it out of possible jealousy in this situation yesterday.
She shows her emotions in a indirect way. Thurs-Sun was a lot of walking for us both and at the end of the day instead of saying she wanted to just go home she started complaining about her feet hurting.

"So Sunday I decided I would talk to her about other girls that I thought were cute. Really didn't get a reaction. Until this one time we were waiting for an autograph in a line. She had to go to the bathroom so I had her things. A girl came to me and we started talking about how she didn't really have much time left and had to catch a train. Aqua lady came back and we traded places so I could use the bathroom. I gave her my book that I was getting autographs in. Then when I came back the girl behind us told me hi again. We talked a little bit then I was trying to get my book back from Aqua lady. She started being playful and wouldn't give me my book back. So I put my arm around her and got close. Eventually she did. The girl behind us made a remark like thats something her brother would do. Which I didn't like one bit. I think Aqua lady did that on purpose for some reason. So that lady had to leave before the line moved. I tried getting her facebook but had a hard time finding her and she just had to leave."

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That little anecdote at the end is something I can relate to. My Aquarius is generally very chatty, pretty much spouting about all her thoughts and I tend to listen more than I speak. She doesn't really show much outward interest in my attention too much, until I get on the phone with a female friend. Then she's doing everything she can to distract me, like trying to tickle me, grab my legs, drag me around the house, just trying to get me to laugh and not engage with someone else. It's really interesting, apparently manipulative behavior.

I don't understand the generalization that Aquarians aren't jealous. I used to think this might be true, but getting to know many Aquarian guy friends (one who had an Aquarian ex, they were both madly jealous over each other,) having dated an Aquarius for 6 months now, and having avoided an Aquarian girl who tried to latch herself right onto me and got offended anytime I talked to other girls (including my Aquarius girlfriend!)

I know jealous behavior and possessive behavior when I see it because I recognize when it arises in myself. I know the verbal and facial cues, the body language, the responses, etc. And I've had a couple of them (including my girlfriend) straight up admit their jealous and don't know why.

Is it a false generalization? Or is it something to do with my chart and my synastry with Aquarians?

Posted by lilmzsunshine
Are Aries even capable of giving 2nd chances like that?

I've done it multiple times. With one girl it was a mistake, with another girl it created a much better relationship when we got back together.

As an Aries male, it's fun when her Venus is in Aries, and all you have to do is be yourself to make her love you. Unfortunately, I don't really trust Aquarians for the longterm, especially with my Venus in Taurus. It's a great relationship for now, but one of us will break it off next year.

Posted by Caplove
Is it easy? lol. I'm curious, where's your mars, op?

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