I'm a virgo sun, scorpio rising, aqua moon. We started off good. After 3 mths we had sex on nye. He told me he wasn't in a emotional psyche so I said I didn't want to have sex again. He explained he didn't want to get hurt. I told him I wouldn't & we worked it out. We had sex for another week. He started spazzin when I said I started to get attached. Saying he was insecure, his dad abused him as a child & his child mother mistreated him. It freaked me out. I gave him some space & told him lets just be platonic. We agreed, then like a week later when I was getting advice, he says we don't have to be just platonic & asked me to the movies. I figured out something was fishy. I started playing games b/c I felt he got over me (Bad I know). We played games (no sex) for a while then we agreed to be friends.I decided I needed space, b/c at that point I started liking him & needed to rationalize things to avoid drama. I felt kinda guilty for playing mind games. He didn't want to give me space. Called me back asking could we still be friends. After a few weeks. I hit him up. He was hesitant but I told him I was okay. He mentioned women are complicated & the women he love (which he later denied) he invited me to his show. After a while I noticed he wld only call me or hang out w/ me when he was in a bad mood. If I called him he had an attitude, I told him I wasn't going to have a friendship like that on his terms. I was done w/ him & he call me back apologizing & he admitting he had been going back & forth w/ ex & he was unhappy w/ life & how he was abused. I felt bad. I showed him how to meditate the next day. I called him every other day to make sure he was okay, Went to his show the 2 wks later to support him. The next day some guys were arguing on my FB status. He saw it & said I shld delete them. We got off the phone I sent him a motivational quote . He called back saying he feel I'm trying to bring him to the light like he can't handle his own problems, I told him no, but he kept implying I was tryin to manipulate him. He said he put up walls b/c I sent stuff like that. I text the nxt day letting him know I didn't mean bad by it, b/c I thought it hurt his ego. He ignored my text, I waited a few hrs & sent "Can u a least acknowledge my text" He calls sayin I was tryin to be friends b/c I thought we be a relationship. I told him I didn't. I had a bf since we decided to be friends & he said I did that to do prove a point. He said I was annoying & not to call him
Virgo Woman- Scorpio Man. DRAMA
This guy has some deep rooted issues. He's gonna believe what he wants to believe. He has every excuse under the sun to suit his immature theories. Id just be straight with him and tell him to take you at face value or lise a good friendship. Then leave him alone til he comes to his senses. My advice.
*lose
You're definitely right about that. It was so draining, because he was paranoid of everything I did. I felt like I was walking on eggshells. It this went on for 7 months. I know scorpio's have a rep of being crazy but geesh.
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