What zodiac signs do you find Selfless & Selfish?

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itsnoteasybeingavirgo
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My Experience:

Cancer -- if someone close to you is cancer then you are lucky as they will b worry for your problems & do effort to solve them even more than you.

Virgos -- If you have a Virgo friend then you can dial his number in time of need just as you call 15 to call police. BUT REMEMBER though they will rarely ask for help in reciprocation but if they felt unappreciated then they will think you are taking them for granted and one day will become cold and leave you without saying a word

Capricorns -- They will help you in the most practical manner and will tell you straightforwardly if its beyond their control, its more practical kind a relation than emotional one)

Leo -- They won't even ask for thanks after giving you their new dress or painstakingly done thesis report but in return you have to treat them like a King/Queen. Don't tell them your stories just give importance to everything about them. They are Sun and you are just a planet revolving around them, sun can give you light and want nothing in return but you HAVE TO revolve around it.

Scorpio -- They are really fun company and will do anything for you if they don't have something else to do that interests them more, in that scenario they will completely ignore you and will tell in an innocent manner later that there was some problem in my phone didn't read your message.

Gemini -- Me, Me, Me: what they think, what they feel, what they want. Its just all about them. And the minute you tried to change it they will delete you from their life and will find your replacement within minutes as they have a long list of social contacts.

Sagittarius --—what's my Share— is their tagline. Won't even reply your messages if their own interest is in not in that conversation.

Pisces -- Now this is little hard to understand. Because they will do lots of things for you but not because they genuinely feel or care for you but because they think they are really good and all what they do is to prove it And while doing it they??ll keep reminding you that how good they are behaving with you even though you don't deserve such good behavior.

Taurus -- If there is someone in your acquaintance who is really fun company to be with in all picnics & going outs till the point you are paying your bills yourself (preferably theirs too) but the second you expect them to pay your bill they just RUN then most probably it's a Taurus.

No experience with Aries, Libra, Aquarius
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ARies - will help you if you are willing to help yourself. But you have to listen to their bossiness and do it their way.

Libra - will listen and encourage you to rebuild a relationship with whomever you have fallen out with. (that's the only experience I have)

Aquarius - If they are your friend, they will be there for you and help you if they can. If they can't, they know someone who can.

Sag - what you said was true, however, I know sags that will do a lot for other people. Especially if that person is sick, they will visit and really be there. Always good to lend an ear and one friend is always picking up strays - by that I mean people. She always has someone living with her who needs help (relatives, kids, foreign exchange students, friends, etc).
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---Selfless:--- (IME)

Aries - And it's of the practical kind, something do do or something to work on. Like it.

Aquarius - Yes, in my experience. Perhaps for the more money-hungry ones it can be for profit/personal gain but on the whole, good. My mum was an exception; she helped virtually anybody young and old.

Gemini - I feel like my best mate has a bit of Cancer in her chart...she's really selfless and it's beautiful.

Virgo - Demonstrative and practical help. Extremely dependable when in need.

Cap - Similar to Virgo.



---Selfish:---

Cancer - Two words: My father. Especially with money.



Not much experience with the others.










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My Experience:

Aries: selfish towards others, can really abuse you, and be unaware of their actions! If they do incline towards helping you, you are to follow their instructions to the dot. They are very selfless towards their family though.

Gemini, Libra, Aquarius: selfish and would help you only or play any part in your life if they find some advantage for them (which is marginally more useful for them than for you). Aquarius lies more in the grey area- they will help, pragmatically, if they feel inclined to, especially if for some reason they identify you as their mission.

Cancer: utterly selfless, empathetic, and probably will suffer more than the sufferer but expects some acknowledgement in return

Leo, Scorpio: selfless but can be possessive and needs recognition.

Virgo, Capricorn: selfless, practical, blunt, and reliable. They are wary of being taken for granted.

Sag, Taurus: selfish. I am yet to be helped by any Sag- although they are happy to get your help

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Posted by Sutekh
virgos help with strings attached. It's like if you don't let them help you they take it as a diss. They want to help when its unwarranted. They fulfill themselves by helping so just because they are helpful doesnt mean its not selfish.



LOL This is kinda true actually. My sis will help me out and I'll always ask her the same thing: 'Are you sure you can do this? Are you sure? You sure?' And she's like 'Yeah no problem, don't stress, it's fine...roll on 2 weeks later...'Oh girl I'm stressed out, I shouldn't of done this or that, why did I do this, I shouldn't of offered to help...what am I going to do now?' And I'm like, 0_o *gawd sakes*

Sometimes I don't bother her because it stresses me out when she goes like this. But, bless her, she can't help it. So I see how she's a bit of both, like everyone else.