Accusing cancer man

Accusing them of cheating or you are just taken for granted. What will happen next? How will you know if your accusation is true or not?

Usually they refuse confrontation 😢

I did that once, i felt he was a little distant and we were going through some issues so I acted like my usual direct blunt self and said "are you talking to someone else??"

Saying he was upset would be an understatement, he was pissed, hurt that i didn't trust him and even said that me feeling that way was "the beginning of the end" (I just love how dramatic he can get when he is in in a bad mood) I apologized, apologized and then apologized some more but at some point I realized I just had to leave him alone, he was upset for a good week about it but then came around...

The key is to let him know you are sorry (if he is not guilty obviously) and then just leave him alone to deal with his moods, keep in touch, let him know you care but le him be for a while, that's in my experience 🙂

That's exactly what I said "are you talking to someone else?", but he got upset when I accused him that he just using me. He said, ok talk to you later, I am angry now.


hi Ms Gemini1, I am scorpio 🙂

The thing is I'm not worry right now but eventually I may regret this. I kinda need some space and stop thinking about him for awhile.

I have learned that with my Cancer os not what I say bc I really feel I can tell him anything but what's important is how I say it, he is very sensitive and sometimes he feels criticized so I can't be blunt...

Hi Ms Gemini1, I don't know how to explain this but I don't get the attention that I need from him. My fault because I didn't even ask for it.

I also got this feeling that my accusations were true but i give him the benefit of the doubt. I feel attached to him but I also feel I have to move on.

But I also wondering for if he is really upset or just wanted to avoid the confrontation? If he is upset, for how long?

Thanks for you concern Ms Bikerchick and sorry to what happened to you.

Actually cheating is not really the our main issue, but his lack of attention to me which lead to chain reaction. Been lurking in this site since i know him and I learned that cancers are clingy if they like you..... and he's not.

He got upset when I said " you are just using me?" ,, the first time, I was upset and he apologize a lot of times.... but this time got pissed off.

Thanks Ms Gemini1, Its been like 3 hours only but I am scorpio and my pride is bigger than me. My gut says I should move on unless he gives me the attention I want. But if his silence will go as long as 1month maybe I should completely remove him from my life.

I am not even pressuring him, I want it to come naturally from him. I think I'm gonna disappear from him for a while because I don't think it's going to work out. I want him to analyze everything, if he is willing to talk I don't think he will like what I am going to say.

If we are not on the same page, it's better to end this.

It's sad but I don't like to feel stupid.