are cancer women the hardest to find a match for? what's with being so enigmatic and a romantic?!

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my question being who is your good match cancerian women? do you make up your mind at some point? what is/ was your best relationship sign (rising too if you know)

my very cute cancerian bff finds it hard to find a guy she likes or get along with, inspite of dating actively. I feel a little sorry for her, my taurean bff found her scorp, my virgo friend's found her sag, all but the sweet and pretty cancerian!

seems to me as I dig deeper on the issue, there are many cancerian girls that are single (considering they are choosy or indecisive or whatever) they just cannot find a good match for them.

it's ironical considering what a romantic they are!

meanwhile, my cancerian guy and I have a spiritual connection so beautiful we barely part.

she had the closest run with the scorpio but he is a lot darker for her taste and creepy, virgo was too self shallow, apparently aries were too selfish (guys), the leo was just pretentious and the list goes on...

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Posted by ariessungoddess
my question being who is your good match cancerian women? do you make up your mind at some point? what is/ was your best relationship sign (rising too if you know)

my very cute cancerian bff finds it hard to find a guy she likes or get along with, inspite of dating actively. I feel a little sorry for her, my taurean bff found her scorp, my virgo friend's found her sag, all but the sweet and pretty cancerian!

seems to me as I dig deeper on the issue, there are many cancerian girls that are single (considering they are choosy or indecisive or whatever) they just cannot find a good match for them.

it's ironical considering what a romantic they are!

meanwhile, my cancerian guy and I have a spiritual connection so beautiful we barely part.

she had the closest run with the scorpio but he is a lot darker for her taste and creepy, virgo was too self shallow, apparently aries were too selfish (guys), the leo was just pretentious and the list goes on...


PFT! Seems like Pisceans are hard to find a relationship these days. Good luck! 🤗 cyber hugs!

Love,

Eva

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I don't know what our match is. I've dated from different ones and it just didn't last. I understand her reasons for not continuing those relationships. Those are good reasons to me. I want someone real and not full of bs and accepting like I am. Pretension and dark creepy is just not my thing. Neither is apathetic selfishness. That's everyone's list I think.
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I'm earth sun and Cancer rising I say I'm romantic and sensual. And it is something I get nervous around with other signs like fire signs for example. If they aren't used to this treatment. I think I like to take things slow even though omg magnetic aura gets created and tension and God damn. Okay so I want to but can't and then it gets like hot or cold for me personally.
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Posted by kissmygrits
I don't know what our match is. I've dated from different ones and it just didn't last. I understand her reasons for not continuing those relationships. Those are good reasons to me. I want someone real and not full of bs and accepting like I am. Pretension and dark creepy is just not my thing. Neither is apathetic selfishness. That's everyone's list I think.
yeah even many of our friends ask her to stop being a prick when she says she dumps them and all since she puts up a brave face but only some of us know why and it's valid. but boy are you guys secretive!
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Posted by kissmygrits
I don't know what our match is. I've dated from different ones and it just didn't last. I understand her reasons for not continuing those relationships. Those are good reasons to me. I want someone real and not full of bs and accepting like I am. Pretension and dark creepy is just not my thing. Neither is apathetic selfishness. That's everyone's list I think.
yeah even many of our friends ask her to stop being a prick when she says she dumps them and all since she puts up a brave face but only some of us know why and it's valid. but boy are you guys secretive!
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I just don't think it's others business. I have a select few I confide in 🙂.

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Scorp cap Taurus cancer & #1 was aqua but that is not the norm.

I've been single for 7 years this month since I was 25. I've dated & currently in love with a cancer man I've been "with" for 2 years but not "official". I'm happy to be moving slowly mostly bc I kno he cares so I don't feel im wasting time & it gives me a goal.

It's very very hard to captivate me for more than 2 dates.

She's just being a cancer. Don't worry to much
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Posted by kissmygrits
I don't know what our match is. I've dated from different ones and it just didn't last. I understand her reasons for not continuing those relationships. Those are good reasons to me. I want someone real and not full of bs and accepting like I am. Pretension and dark creepy is just not my thing. Neither is apathetic selfishness. That's everyone's list I think.
yeah even many of our friends ask her to stop being a prick when she says she dumps them and all since she puts up a brave face but only some of us know why and it's valid. but boy are you guys secretive!
I just don't think it's others business. I have a select few I confide in 🙂.

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We're super secretive!!! I'll die with secrets no more than one soul knows & not bc I told that person. Some secrets I'll take to the grave being the only one that knew.
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I finally settle with scorp.before him it was hard..I was very picky and refuse to settle for bullshit. I can't tell you who is the best match for cancer ..I had dated other scorps and it was hell. When she find the one it will happen..I had people laugh at me because I was soo picky but cancers are very intuitive. ..they no when it's a bad match. Give her time she will get there
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Scorp cap Taurus cancer & #1 was aqua but that is not the norm.

I've been single for 7 years this month since I was 25. I've dated & currently in love with a cancer man I've been "with" for 2 years but not "official". I'm happy to be moving slowly mostly bc I kno he cares so I don't feel im wasting time & it gives me a goal.

It's very very hard to captivate me for more than 2 dates.

She's just being a cancer. Don't worry to much
hmm no wonder I was fretting about her, for us this long a wait is like a vow of celibacy for a life! lol
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Posted by butterfly30
I finally settle with scorp.before him it was hard..I was very picky and refuse to settle for bullshit. I can't tell you who is the best match for cancer ..I had dated other scorps and it was hell. When she find the one it will happen..I had people laugh at me because I was soo picky but cancers are very intuitive. ..they no when it's a bad match. Give her time she will get there
yeah that about makes sense, maybe it's just you guys' thing huh waiting until mr. right. pretty normal I guess.
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Scorp cap Taurus cancer & #1 was aqua but that is not the norm.

I've been single for 7 years this month since I was 25. I've dated & currently in love with a cancer man I've been "with" for 2 years but not "official". I'm happy to be moving slowly mostly bc I kno he cares so I don't feel im wasting time & it gives me a goal.

It's very very hard to captivate me for more than 2 dates.

She's just being a cancer. Don't worry to much
hmm no wonder I was fretting about her, for us this long a wait is like a vow of celibacy for a life! lol
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We're odd. We will be bothered we didn't get a call back within minutes but can go weeks or months without speaking to someone and it feels as if time flew by & we can pick up where we left off. Time isn't much of a factor for us. I
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I am very picky, but I think the other user is right by saying it's because we are very intuitive. We can pick up on things quickly. I also know my worth and what I want. I want back what I'm prepared to give. I've been through so much heartbreak (two difficult break ups, one a cancer, one a scorpio) that I'm more careful with whom I allow myself to fall.

Is it a Cancer thing to be so choosey?

Also, I'm not that secretive, unless I don't trust you.