ARIES VS CANCER - HELP ME PLEASE!

Please can someone help me??
Ths is the most unstable up and down relationship I have ever been in, we argue continually, I break up with him and he won't leave me alone after break up & I always end up going back to him.
This time I haven't though, and he doesn't leave me alone. If I don't respond to his messages he will call me until I answer.
I know how unhealthy this is, which is why I stay away. Problem is we live in a fairly small town so I bump into him continually. It is really difficult to let go, and I know he still cares about me...


ME:
Sun 15??03' Cancer
Moon 26??51' Scorpio
Mercury 09??37' Cancer
Venus 02??19' Cancer
Mars 00??40' Leo
Jupiter 26??55' Aries
Saturn 15??50' Sagittarius
Uranus 23??52' Sagittarius
Neptune 06??22' Capricorn
Pluto 07??02' Scorpio

HIM:
Sun 07??16' Aries
Moon 17??55' Gemini
Mercury 18??02' Aries
Venus 18??15' Aries
Mars 09??15' Taurus
Jupiter 10??17' Aquarius
Saturn 27??44' Scorpio
Uranus 17??57' Sagittarius
Neptune 03??35' Capricorn
Pluto 03??57' Scorpio

ANYONE WITH ANY IDEAS?? ANY COMMENTS ON HOW TO HANDLE THIS?? Or maybe explain to me so that I have a better understanding of this behaviour?

Thank you so much
xxx

I don't believe in Aries-Cancer commitment. I dated a guy, moved in with him, I ran away, he was not able to forgive.
I'm dating a cancer guy again (i realized it by accident that he is a cancer too) and I'm wondering if he can deal with my temper.

Thanks ladies 🙂

He suffers from depression. The arguments relate mostly (98% OF THE TIME) to him refusing to get help for his condition,he thinks I am forcing him, which of course I am not. I just hate seeing him like that & I hate the fact that he doesn't care enough about himself to get help. It is emotionally draining to say the least... Infact it got to a point where I thought I may need to go for counselling. I have not suffered from depression ever really,until I started dating B... we've been apart for approx. 3 weeks now, and I can't tell you how much better I feel for it, but I miss him.

I do care so much for him, and this is why I keep going back because on his good days there isn't enough time in the world I have for him,but on his bad days it is the worst type of rejection & meanness you can go through...