Cancer emotional wife with aries cheating husband

Hi i am a cancerian.. too emotional n loyal n love my husband.. i hve nvr done anything to cheat on him or even if he gets a lil jealous of me talking to any fren i make sure thats clear between us.. but i recently found out tht my husband was cheating on me.. by talking to a young gal 17 yr old n he is 33 now..on networking site.. thy exchanged dirty pic n talked dirty also he wanted to meet tht gal n lie to me abt it as if he is going for a business trip.he has a habbit of lying a lot n he always shout n starts yelling if i confront him for wrong things.. i get scared n nerous n break so i just cry n do nothing.. i confronted him m told him tht i read tht chat but he blamed me for spying on him.didnt talk to me at all.. also i fell sick cudnt sleep for the complete ngt but he didnt bother .. n becoz he is out of station he went to other woman to satisfy himself as i chked his email he took a hotel inspite we hve a house there..i still love him i guess but dont knw how to bring him to understand tht wht he is doing is wrong. i really m not able to make up my mind wht to do.. my mum will not be able to take it if i tell her all this n his parents support him in whtever he does as he has a huge infulence on his parents.

this is why you cancer chicks get walked all over.. because you just cry cry cry... you need to MAN THE HELL UP MISSY!!!!! SHOW SOME BALLS!! and don't take any of his crap... just walk off... show him what he lost.. this isn't healthy for you.. you need to leave him and find someone better. I hope everything goes well for you.. if you need support, we're here for ya......... BUT NO CRYING!!!!

Can you please type out a lists of reasons to stay vs. leaving?

This will not end well, at all. As much as I know that it's easy for us that are NOT in this situation to tell you to please get out of it, please get out of it. It appears he has you right where it wants you and that is under his feet. You are his doormat. I love Aries' but they can be REAL a ssholes if they can get away with it! They need someone that is STRONG and won't take crap for settlement. If you have friends-ask for help and be serious about that help. If you don't know what to do, you need to first figure that out as nothing anyone else say will persuade you one way or another. It has gotta come from you.

Good luck!!

Also, I need to thank the Lord and all his Minions for giving me a Capricorn Moon because in situations like these, it takes over and I become a stonecold icecube with a nonexisting heart and would probably kill the fukcer while smiling. Might be why I am not married nor have a boyfriend.....anyway, carry on!

And OP, remember, that there are many many humans out there willing to help should you really want it!! 🙂 No problem is too big to solve, the difficult part is just to not be so rigid with the solutions, but openminded.