Hi i am a cancerian.. too emotional n loyal n love my husband.. i hve nvr done anything to cheat on him or even if he gets a lil jealous of me talking to any fren i make sure thats clear between us.. but i recently found out tht my husband was cheating on me.. by talking to a young gal 17 yr old n he is 33 now..on networking site.. thy exchanged dirty pic n talked dirty also he wanted to meet tht gal n lie to me abt it as if he is going for a business trip.he has a habbit of lying a lot n he always shout n starts yelling if i confront him for wrong things.. i get scared n nerous n break so i just cry n do nothing.. i confronted him m told him tht i read tht chat but he blamed me for spying on him.didnt talk to me at all.. also i fell sick cudnt sleep for the complete ngt but he didnt bother .. n becoz he is out of station he went to other woman to satisfy himself as i chked his email he took a hotel inspite we hve a house there..i still love him i guess but dont knw how to bring him to understand tht wht he is doing is wrong. i really m not able to make up my mind wht to do.. my mum will not be able to take it if i tell her all this n his parents support him in whtever he does as he has a huge infulence on his parents.
Cancer emotional wife with aries cheating husband
excuse my bluntness...but how can you say you love such a man?
people usually love the ones who respect them, stay by their sides, make life enjoyable when together, etc...
no...you don't LOVE him,...you are just scared of stepping into the unknown...
i bet you once were funny, happy, self confident...go in front of a morror and look at the woman you see there now...who is she? i'm sure you'll be able to make a decision after that...no matter how much time it will take...
take care
people usually love the ones who respect them, stay by their sides, make life enjoyable when together, etc...
no...you don't LOVE him,...you are just scared of stepping into the unknown...
i bet you once were funny, happy, self confident...go in front of a morror and look at the woman you see there now...who is she? i'm sure you'll be able to make a decision after that...no matter how much time it will take...
take care

Dump him and I hope to god you don't have kids with him. He is ABUSING you! He KNOWS what he's doing is wrong!! If he didn't know it then he wouldn't try hiding it, making excuses for his cheating and then blaming you for his own bad behavior. Those are hallmarks of an abusive person. I should know, I've been there. Take it from me: I wish I had left my ex years before I actually did. Doesn't matter what your mom or anyone else thinks. All that matter is what you think. You can't possibly love him right now. You love the idea of the happy fantasy life you expected to live with him. That life never happened and it never will, not with him. He's a liar. He will lie about loving you, lie about everything just to keep controlling you. RUN!! I wish this had bigger font so I could seriously express how much you need OUT of this relationship.
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