He left because you were insecure and he probably felt he always had to hide stuff from you that he felt he shouldn't have to hide. He knows he doesn't want the ex and even proved it to you and your still trippin. His mom died and he speaks to his ex two weeks later and then you confront them. That was probably annoying and embarrassing to him. Plus his mom died! He's grieving. And you has the nerve to bring more drama upon his already heavy pain and drama. His ex probably knew his mom. Did it ever occur to you that she could have been sad to hear the news and needed to talk to him to make sure he's ok since she's a FRIEND and his MOM just DIED. If you are that insecure then you probably have a thing with insecurity and he probably got tired of it and bailed. It's better to alone and peaceful then to be with someone who is insecure and overbearing. It makes having to deal with what life throws at you much more difficult. To be with a cancer you gotta be strong and secure in yourself but you gotta also remember to be secure in your cancer. Trust that what he said is the truth especially if they give proof. Don't make them feel like they have to prove themself at every time they think you are about to make up a new drama from your own insecurity. That's way too much work. He probably got stressed out from dealing with life and then also to have to hide everything away from you. He probably started lying to you for little stupid ahit eventually just so you won't get pissed off because he got tired of being in hiding for no reason. And he probably got tired of dealing with the pressure of having to tell lies for dumb reasons or hide things he shouldn't have to hide or trying to boost you ego so you won't feel insecure. I used to live like that and it's no fun. Think of living with strict and overbearing parents while in high school.
