I need some advice please. I'm a Taurus woman and have been dating a cancer man for a little more than a year now. We are talking marriage, although not officially engaged yet. We have met each others families and have decided to take the next step and move in together. The plan is, he will be putting his house up for rent and will move into my house in the next few weeks. My place is bigger and much closer to his job. Over the last few weeks, he told me it was really important to have alone time with me and very much wanted me to spend a few nights a week at his place in the meantime. Now, he tells me this morning, that he feels it may be better if I don't stay at his place for awhile, he says he'd feel better in a "neutral" place while he mourns the loss of his personal "space". I'm confused because this is contradictory to what he said just last week. I'm confused and worried that he is backing away from me again (as he has done a few times) and changing his mind about "us". When I try to talk to him about it, he gets defensive and angry and said, "if you are the right girl, you will understand". What— The "right girl"?? I thought we got past that. I'm hurt and confused. What's going on? Am I over reacting? Does this make sense?
