Cancer Rising/PiscesMoon Game plan??

SORRY FOR THE LONG POST but wanted it to be very detailed for you to understand.
The Scenario;
Everything was fastly paced, meeting over breakfast on valentines day and had our first kiss, surprised me with flowers and was completely swept me off my feet. Sight shift of aura on Sunday, he shared his current dilemma with me, about his brother disappearing with the $ 40k he had let him borrowed so he couldn't close a deal with a client ashe was a few thousand short. I felt for how devastated he was so I went ot of my way to help generate that money. After his 'Valentine' romantic surprise it instantly solidified in me that it's "we" from now on. I honestly thought he was the one just after a day (yes very crazy).
So fast forward I came up with the money, like wonderwoman and I even drove to see him him on Monday (1hour drive). I also prepared 9 freezer meals (1 is good for a whole day), so I know he's well fed and taken care of...it was diabetes-friendly too as I know he has the insulin-dependent type and probably still devastates him as he only found out 10 months ago.
Met him and gave him the good news (money he needed which was $ 2k) plus the food and he couldn't feel anymore blessed (was so verbally thankful), even took me to a secret sanctuary of where him and his dad used to fish , spoke about "our" future, was amazed and touched by how I've stayed though I met him at his lowest, and how right he feels being with me, it was a good 20 mins of D&M, he slept over mine 2 days later and butter happened.
Now he seems detached, texts are brief, still asks about my day but he's blunt and cold. I know that hes been working irregular hours since Mr. Aqua man told me to be patient with him as it may take him some time to get back up as he feels ruined after the incident + the financial stress. He also told me that the next months will be very busy but assured me he'll pay back in 2 weeks, I said no pressure do what you gotta do. After the sleepover he's been MIA a lot and isn't sweet like when we first spoke (it's only been over a week). Last night he sent me a few mms while at a work site w/ his workers around 11pm (irregular work hours). My pisces moon made me doubt him a a lot but his reply was reassuring. My Cancer rising makes me often overly emotional with his sudden detachment from being a hopelessly romantic. Thankfully, my Aries sun conceals all of those emotions so I also get to appear just as detached as he is.

My Gameplan;
Remain appearing reserved & detached as I feel the same energy from him, if he detaches further,eg. No txt or call within 2-3 days, then he has definitely failed to meet my emotional stability needs. Another 2 weeks of no speaking & I will shoot a msg regarding the money he owes. If he still doesn't reply & it has been a week since my text reminder then I'll proceed with a txt saying " I'm very disappointed at the cost you would sacrfice your dignity for...Sorry to seem judgemental of your morals & Values but I feel really sad to accept tat this is how it's going to be over that amount of money. I would've done so much for you, more than the little value of what you borrowed...I'm not mad nor angry, hope ur happy w/ the decisions you've made...take care of urself ok.
SOOO BASICALLY kill him w/ kindness! It's also how I realy feel anyways. Though I'm oevrly compassionate & emotional I know what I deserve,

How do you think he'll react?

My prediction is he'll justify why he hasn't msgd & retaliate but i'll simply reply "You could've at least msgd so I'm not left wondering abt anything at all but u didnt, I understand. You know I dnt ask for a lot of emotional secutity but it cnt be this way either. If you consider this normal then we r on diff chapters of the book.This isnt gonna make me feel happy , i'm sorry and I dont wana be questioning u as an effect of my insecurity, its not fair for the both of us"

Mr. Aqua will either let me go or try. My desired response is for him to try. Open his feelings & get in his head by being able to walk away w/ no hard feelings after how badly he made me feel. Give it a few days & his guilt will consume him anyway.
Stay kind & compassionate.

Is this effective?
I'm doing it anyway...but let me know what your opinions are... Yes I have over thought this, over analyzed & over planned it but it's in my nature, bare with me.

additional info;
He's 27, have a business in commercial trade and I've known him through a friend who is a farm contractor...because he sold his farm to my friend.
-Last relationship was 2 yrs ago / lost his baby with her from a car accident 2 yrs ago as well. She left without a word 2 weeks after their kid's death and she took every financial value there was in him so he has been through a lot
-First meeting at Valentines and I had the speechless effect & butterfly effect on him cos he was very much of a smitten kitten & in person as well, he surprised me with my fav flowers on that valentines breakfast. (I'm a sucker I know)
-I perceive him as honest, I'm the wallpaper of his phone I saw it flash when there was an incoming phone call, showed me his conversation w/ his brother,
even ask whether I like residing on the beach side or country side...he wasn't always this aloof, cold & detached. I don't understand. He's too comfortable? I don't like it anyway so reason being of my plan