Cancer with Sag/Cap cusps as friend or sibling?

I'm trying to test a theory on Cancer and Sag/Cap-cusp relationship/friendship/siblings. How is the interaction going? To me it seems like Sag/Cap-cusps always disagree with how Cancer handle stuff. I don't know what the deal is with Sag/Cap cusps. Sag/Cap cusps likes to criticize and then the Cancer hides. OTOH, Cancer tries to nurture Sag/Cap who respond in an unkind manner. Problem is I'm trying to understand why can't just the Cancer drop the dance. Is there some sort of pull that Cancer felt from Sag/Cap?

Anyone out there experience this? Any insight is highly appreciated.

I'm in agreement with you. If I have a cancer sibling, I will be close to them and ask them for insights or just to vent out. Then again I'm a virgo.

But there is this Sag/Cap guy who is always putting down this cancer guy and I want to know what the deal is with Sag/Cap guy.

lol. You're right, it is contradicting. Let me try again:
When I said why Cancer doesn't stop the dance, I mean to ask why Cancer doesn't just give up, stop giving help/advise if the opposite side putting him down. For example: the cancer guy always trying to help the sag/cap cusps guy by providing answers and/or solution to some problem but instead of being grateful, the sag/cap guy would say that the cancer guy is weak.

If it were me giving advise and that is the respond I get from someone (anyone), I would never ever give advise anymore. You know what I'm saying.

Oh and I forgot to mention, these two are brothers. Cancer is the oldest.

Wow! Ariel, thats interesting because this sag/cap cusps has a gf of more than 6 yrs and she is cancer sun with libra moon. She is way younger than he is though.

In my humble opinion, yes, he puts her down alot but she doesnt seem to mind it. Not in front of me anyway. Sometimes her frustration does show.

You describe this guy perfectly. He is attention-seeking and highly-negative. No thoughts is right unless it is coming from him. In my humble opinion, he is toxic. But I can't say to my cancerian friend that I think his brother is toxic. Sigh.