christmas gift for cancer guy

There's this cancer guy that is a psw worker. He comes to house to help out with my older brother that is disabled.
Our mom passed away 17 days ago. He's been there for my brother and help out anyway he can. Since I'm Aqua not
good with saying how I feel. I do say thanks and wonder if he hears me say that. Anyways I want to make homemade
gift (cookies) for christmas or maybe write a little letter saying how i appreciate all he has done.

Would he take it weird and think more from it? Or should i just give him a Christmas card?

Thank you for reply

I was talking about what cookies I like to eat and he said which ones he likes. I was going to make the ones he likes, haven't made those cookies in a long time hope they turn out 🙂

Thank you, I also put his son's name on it to, he was all smiles. Best wishes to you and Happy Holidays. My sister told me, he asking if Im alright. I told him I have my moments of sadness. I told him I need to get things done and in order, grieving later when the paper work is done. I think he wants to help me some way. Right now I'm not ready to talk. So Im guessing he wants me to talk about my mom to him? What more can I say to him to reassure him other then talking about how I feel with her gone?

I don't need to talk about my mom and he's not hearing me. I say it so many different ways. When I do talk it's about my brother. He's not close to my sister, she's a cappy and does like to talk to anyone. No not expecting anything form him then friendship. I'm to busy to think about being with someone. I got my brother, step dad that is on daliysi and in wheel chair to. My cappy sister son always want to be around me and not his mom so much. I take him places and go to his games, concerts. The cancer guy calls me a chief of the house. My mom was just friendly with anyone and welcome them to the family. She was always cooking and offer them food, making our home comfotable to live in. She pass down the traits to me and that's how Im, he could mistake that Im interested in him. Maybe with all this going on with me, he sees some kind of sadness in me or I just need to talk, I try not to show it and live the best life I can. For the married, divorced, single part, he's told my mom he's not with the mother anymore.

I know his boss he said he's overly sensitive. In differnet ways I mean indirect way, straight forward, blunt and change the subject.

Ok Thanks. I try and be sweet as I can be. I got some water in my chart so it helps a little.