Last year I met a male cancer. After our first meeting, he told me he was ready to make it official, that he knew he wanted to be with me. I told him I wanted to take things slow. He wanted me with him everyday. He has no friends, is a mama's boy, is very sensitive, shy, and has low self-esteem. As time went on, I fell in love with him. I loved his love for family, his sensitivity, the fact that he was a country boy, etc. I opened up about my feelings and he told me that hasn't developed feelings for me in fear of being hurt like the women in his past have. He said he doesn't think he's good enough for me. How do you go from wanting to be with me to not having feelings for me later on? I love him, I do, and I'm a loving person which is why its been so easy for me to shower him with, especially considering the verbal and emotional abuse he's endured from family and ex's. I eventually walked away and two months later he started wanting to spend time together, but he's still not opening up about his feelings. Sometimes he'll invite me over, knowing he has plans to go out and gets annoyed when I get annoyed and leave.
