Is it a good thing when a Cancer man stops disappearing on you? He used to do so, and often, especially during any type of confrontation, but hasn't in a couple of months. Also he FINALLY asked me to spend the night (I made no mention of it myself), this is a big step for him.
Good signs from Cancer man?
Yay! It'll take a lot of patience but I hope it'll be all worth it for you 🙂

woah, months to spend the night?
man, this is the sort of shit that makes me avoid cancers.
man, this is the sort of shit that makes me avoid cancers.
Posted by taupixieLol, I am trying, but as a Virgo I like things all laid out in black and white, and he is definitely the opposite! I've broken up with him many times because I have a low threshold for " games" and indecisiveness, but we've always worked things out. You have been with a Cancer man? What is your story?
Yay! It'll take a lot of patience but I hope it'll be all worth it for you 🙂
Posted by CancerLeoDynamiteGirl, i've broke things off with him too many times to count, but my love for him keeps me from giving up on us. Stupidity maybe lol?
woah, months to spend the night?
man, this is the sort of shit that makes me avoid cancers.
Posted by killerwhalemoonIdk but so happy for you! How long before y'all were official?
Whats his moon and mars? Mine told me he missed me when we were cuddle buddies now we are together and both clingy towards each other 🙂
Posted by killerwhalemoonI've only known mine for less than a year, i've heard that cancerians like to take things slooooow!!!! And I am fucking jealous lol!Posted by JkatsWe have known each other for five years. Cuddle buddies for two weeks. Starting january 17th i think...Posted by killerwhalemoonIdk but so happy for you! How long before y'all were official?
Whats his moon and mars? Mine told me he missed me when we were cuddle buddies now we are together and both clingy towards each other 🙂click to expand
Posted by narbI feel your pain, and we don't talk on the phone, we're not phone people lol! How long have you been enduring the silent treatment?Posted by Jkatsboi ur lucky i wish my cancer would call me 😢(Posted by taupixieLol, I am trying, but as a Virgo I like things all laid out in black and white, and he is definitely the opposite! I've broken up with him many times because I have a low threshold for " games" and indecisiveness, but we've always worked things out. You have been with a Cancer man? What is your story?
Yay! It'll take a lot of patience but I hope it'll be all worth it for you 🙂click to expand
Posted by narbBelieve me, I know complicated, you wouldn't even believe my story it's so crazy. Your guy does what my crab used to do, thank goodness we've gotten past that stage. Even if he was at fault (i've found out that they can never be wrong), he would still get all pissy and shut me out for daaaays, it was emotionally stressful and draining. Idk what made him stop, but I am hoping that we will keep on moving forward. He still has his days, but who doesn't. Those cancerians and their emotions. And I think that you're doing the right thing, though when I was in your shoes, I always gave in and texted first lol! So was he at fault for this situation? And keep your head up, there is still hope, it's only been a week. I've heard of some crabs taking weeks/months away, but eventually find their way back when their head is on straight and things are where they need to be with themselves. However, it's up to you how long you're willing to wait it out.
its complicated.. it's been exactly a week ..if i was to texted him right now he would most likely text back. he just wont text me on his own. so i have stop. im not texting him no more. my feelings are hurt, but the last time i texted him i prepared myself for that to be my last time im getting better as time goes by but it's his lost. because i cant wait for ever.
Posted by narbWell mine said all of the above to me only a few months in of us knowing each other, but we did see one another a few times a week. So idk if you scared him off, each person is different regardless of their sign. And imo if he was, why stick around? Though I do know that crabs cling onto people with a vice grip, whether or not they intend to have a future with them. Damn they are confusing! Like right now, my guy is being quiet, not disappearing on me mind you, yet he wants to get me prego?!?!?!
Nothing happened.....This is the thing..we only met one time... : / .... but the chemistry was magnetic we met online in Oct. met in person in Feb. i have expressed to him that I liked him and he said he felt the same way i have said somethings that i would've never told anyone else until I've really gotten to know them...things like i like u enough to say i love u.... as a friend i had to clean it up...lol... and that i want to have kids with him because he wants kids....smh lmbo i cant believe i said but he never shied away from me...even when i started getting impatient with him and told him im going to let him go. he said wow.... and i waited a couple of days to text him and he responded right away ... when we first started talking i was always reaching out. im realizing im doing all the leg work and that is not what i want. so i have decided to pump my breaks if and when he reaches out i am definitely going to respond to him. Do u think i scared him off? or is it that he doesn't want to be rude to me and is being nice?
Posted by killerwhalemoonMine wants me prego and in the past has said that he wants to marry me, yet he won't commit, how does that make any sense? And just last week, I sent him a pic and he noticed the ring that I was wearing on my ring finger, and he asked me, " are you engaged to me?". Wtf was that supposed to mean? I just don't get him, I really don't.Posted by JkatsThey do. But i think it depends on their placements. Mine talks to me about what our kids are gonna look like. We were wrestling around one day and he called me his wife. He is a very devoted and brilliant man.Posted by killerwhalemoonI've only known mine for less than a year, i've heard that cancerians like to take things slooooow!!!! And I am fucking jealous lol!Posted by JkatsWe have known each other for five years. Cuddle buddies for two weeks. Starting january 17th i think...Posted by killerwhalemoonIdk but so happy for you! How long before y'all were official?
Whats his moon and mars? Mine told me he missed me when we were cuddle buddies now we are together and both clingy towards each other 🙂click to expand
Posted by Jkats*"are you engaged to me?"Posted by killerwhalemoonMine wants me prego and in the past has said that he wants to marry me, yet he won't commit, how does that make any sense? And just last week, I sent him a pic and he noticed the ring that I was wearing on my ring finger, and he asked me, " are you engaged to me?". Wtf was that supposed to mean? I just don't get him, I really don't.Posted by JkatsThey do. But i think it depends on their placements. Mine talks to me about what our kids are gonna look like. We were wrestling around one day and he called me his wife. He is a very devoted and brilliant man.Posted by killerwhalemoonI've only known mine for less than a year, i've heard that cancerians like to take things slooooow!!!! And I am fucking jealous lol!Posted by JkatsWe have known each other for five years. Cuddle buddies for two weeks. Starting january 17th i think...Posted by killerwhalemoonIdk but so happy for you! How long before y'all were official?
Whats his moon and mars? Mine told me he missed me when we were cuddle buddies now we are together and both clingy towards each other 🙂click to expand
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