how does cancer man emotions work?

I am a Leo 21 years old female dating 22 years old cancer man for past 3 years. He is my first love and I love him so much.we live together for more then two years and now we have to live apart because he has to help his family business and he live with them.past two years I moved from states to states so that I can be with him.He told me to break up after 6 days of us living apart because i saw an email on his inbox tht he sent with a girl from his work and asked him abt it because its really flirty.Now he ignore me by not calling or texting for 6 days and when i called,he sometimes act normal like we are friend and sometimes dun answer and sometimes shouted me.Are we really over? Or is he playing hard to get because I chased him or is he just busy? Please help!!!

Correction: not an email. Lots of back and forth emails

I read only the title. That was enough to cheer me up.

I dun get why u mean? is my problem funny for you? 😢

I don't know your problem, but the title is priceless.

We need more great answers!

Is there anything I can do? I wanted to do whatever I can to save this relationship 😢

I too am a Leo female dated my Cancer male 4 Years , we are going through a similar battle in our relationship Ive tried everything possible in the book to bring our love back to the way it was. The best advice i got is to Move on, If a cancer male is ignoring you, Ignore him..Disappear! which is exactly what i am doing right now. from what i hear if you meant something to him, which im sure you did he'll come back. This process i am going through is helping me to love myself first and foremost, and i must say it is the best thing i have ever did. Do i still love him? Heck yea! do i still hope every now and then he'll come back? Heck yea! But either way I know i will be ok whether he comes back or not. Stop chasing , Im sure your very beautiful and young. He needs to realize that and Chase you 🙂. I read that men in general like to be challenged, they dont like things that come too easy. Give him something to chase, challenge him. So have a little cry session, cry your loudest,and your hardest get it all out of your system. when its all over dry your eyes and say to yourself everyday you start to miss him "this too shall pass" and trust me it will.

I love being a cancer but for every cancer I tell them to be logical. I feel when our emotions hit us it is an animalistic rage inside us. Honestly I feel as a Cancer there is another person inside me. That person can be angry and can complain a lot. I feel I look back and say to my self calm down. There is no need. It honestly depends.

If something is bothering I can fake it but man can it bring me down. We are the true definition of depression. We are the beholders of depression. We hit the bottom and boy we feel like we are tied in a world of angst. We are a great high and the side effect. It is tough with these emotions because you are soaking so many other people's emotions and yours. We just have to self reflect and be assertive for our own good.

Posted by Ruh
I love being a cancer but for every cancer I tell them to be logical. I feel when our emotions hit us it is an animalistic rage inside us. Honestly I feel as a Cancer there is another person inside me. That person can be angry and can complain a lot. I feel I look back and say to my self calm down. There is no need. It honestly depends.

If something is bothering I can fake it but man can it bring me down. We are the true definition of depression. We are the beholders of depression. We hit the bottom and boy we feel like we are tied in a world of angst. We are a great high and the side effect. It is tough with these emotions because you are soaking so many other people's emotions and yours. We just have to self reflect and be assertive for our own good.

Sounds like my ex when he lost his job, well he got fired..he would sleep on the couch and sulk and then a week or 2 later he got up and started applying everywhere like nothing happened it was like this burst of motivation awakened in him lol

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Posted by Ruh
I love being a cancer but for every cancer I tell them to be logical. I feel when our emotions hit us it is an animalistic rage inside us. Honestly I feel as a Cancer there is another person inside me. That person can be angry and can complain a lot. I feel I look back and say to my self calm down. There is no need. It honestly depends.

If something is bothering I can fake it but man can it bring me down. We are the true definition of depression. We are the beholders of depression. We hit the bottom and boy we feel like we are tied in a world of angst. We are a great high and the side effect. It is tough with these emotions because you are soaking so many other people's emotions and yours. We just have to self reflect and be assertive for our own good.

Sounds like my ex when he lost his job, well he got fired..he would sleep on the couch and sulk and then a week or 2 later he got up and started applying everywhere like nothing happened it was like this burst of motivation awakened in him lol

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Oh yeah the first stage is hurt, then anger, then we just keep on moving because we think about things. We are very good at surviving. We know how to do it because we are always playing defense and on the look out. I feel like I live with two people inside of me. The calm me and the exuberant animalistic me. We are good at heart and mean the best if we love and care for you. Just do not give us war and do not hurt us. We just want to love and be loved. We have our imagination that helps us immensely.

Well, for cancer people who comments here... If you say u didn't do anything if someone dun hurt you... I dun think that is true for my ex. I never done anything that would hurt him. I never cheat or even talk with my guy friends because he dun like it.About caring, I do care a lot about him more then anybody could ever think of.Because I wanted to be an ideal gal a guy would want, I try to be good as good as I can. As a Leo I am super romantic and loyal.This is the reason why I am so hurt. I really love him a lot so I try to be good as good as I am and he break up with me without any reason because he can't find any mistake.

@Kitty knitter...
You are absolutely right. I was wrong about everything. I once was a girl with biggest dream and following my own dream. But then I met him, I forgot what my dream was and follow him around while letting my dreams fade away. You know what that ex said, he said to one of my friends that he dun like me anymore because I have no dream.well I had one and I let it all go and sacrifice myself for him and thts what I got.Now I learn how life works. I think I should thanks him for letting me follow my dream.Its his lost that he loose someone who will love him more then her life. As for me I lost someone who doesn't know how to appreciate what other done for him.