How to make things less awkard between me and her

About 2 yeears ago, I talked to this girl through fb and an instant connection was created, to me. Within 5 mins, she gave her number but I NEVERRR texted her (bc I cudnt at the tiime). So, she ignored me for years, at all attempts. Recently I added her on ig within a min she declined me lol. I know her circle of friends.

She thinks I lead her on/rejected her. Idk if she considered me as a potential partner, I did. But I had no idea she was hurt until I knew she was a cancer (i just dealt with one). Now she's in my college, sigh. I bumped to her 3x in a day, I thought she would forget about me/not recognize. She saw me from 50 feet, she quickly read her book lol. The 2nd time, mins later, she didnt look directly at me but I knw she saw me and she started blushing tlkg to her friend, the 3rd and last time was outside, crwded no idea how she saw me


How to make things less awkard between me and her

Do you still have her number? Why did you not text her when you had the chance already?

^he posted something like this before?

Make a point to talk to her. If that fails, I'd forget about it and leave her alone.

You snooze you lose bro.

Posted by osiris626
Do you still have her number? Why did you not text her when you had the chance already?

I did text her like few months later, I had no reply. Guess I have my answer. and by being busy I mean not being able to=I could only make calls. I was too embarrassed to tell her that

and to the sonofthunder guy/girl how about beat it? There are tons of topic here, you aren't forced to reply, I would get replies anyway. You still think I'm inventing stories. You're weird... lol

^ You could have at least called her. Or reach out. If you saw her as a potential partner, that's the least you could do.

Months. That's too long to keep a woman waiting. But if you are serious in pursuing her now, you should start by saying sorry for the months you couldn't contact her. Truth matters.

Good luck. 🙂

Yes you should have called. Time to eat some humble pie and just be honest. That might actually work in your favor.

Posted by aurora
when i hear about cap and taur relationship, i always wonder how long it took for them to start dating. probably from 2 to 10 years. lol!
sorry jk

To reinforce your theory....

I used to e-mail and talk to a Taurus guy I came across on a dating site. We talked several times a day for four months and never suggested meeting in person, didn't ask me out. I wondered why he was so slow. Anyways, aqua met up with me and the rest is history.... bye, bye taurus.

honesty is the best policy ..even though it still sounds cliche, but if ur meant to still know eachother then she'll appreciate ur honesty! .. my best friend is a cancer ande hef neighbour git in touch with her aftef she traveled away fir years and they reconnected. He told her why he never could call when they were younger (had a crush on her and was too embarrassed to call her house number) .. good luck if u know what u want from her

After what happened today, I'm almost certain she likes me (beating all odd) or at least want my attention for some reason.
Typical cancer

when you think she doesn't care/dislike you, she likes you and hold your gaze.

but now im clueless about what to do, because I surely didn't expect that. However, the possibility of her leading me on and teasing me is ver probable

Posted by PMLTH

Posted by osiris626
Do you still have her number? Why did you not text her when you had the chance already?

I did text her like few months later, I had no reply. ..........................

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2 Months? Seriously?
If I text a guy and he texts me back 2 months later, I would avoid you too.
This looks like you blew her off.
She probably feels rejected, and now you think she is playing games.
Sounds like rinse and repeat like the last Crab you were smitten with.

Walk up to that woman, ask her how she is doing and if she would like to have dinner with you.

Posted by PMLTH
After what happened today, I'm almost certain she likes me (beating all odd) or at least want my attention for some reason.
Typical cancer

when you think she doesn't care/dislike you, she likes you and hold your gaze.

but now im clueless about what to do, because I surely didn't expect that. However, the possibility of her leading me on and teasing me is ver probable

How is she leading you on when she isn't even acknowledging you? LOL

Posted by LunarMaiden

Posted by PMLTH
After what happened today, I'm almost certain she likes me (beating all odd) or at least want my attention for some reason.
Typical cancer

when you think she doesn't care/dislike you, she likes you and hold your gaze.

but now im clueless about what to do, because I surely didn't expect that. However, the possibility of her leading me on and teasing me is ver probable

How is she leading you on when she isn't even acknowledging you? LOL

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—? Not acknowledging me? Lol
By leading on=not being serious