About a month or so ago, I confronted a coworker of mine who's a cancer male . I could sense that he was attracted to me, for a while now, but would never really say it. Instead , he resorted to mind games. Which I don't tolerate. He'd mentioned a girl in my presence, randomly out of no where, And immediately in my face right after. Almost as if he was begging for my attention or looking for a reaction... or both . I recognized this behavior w/ a previous girl. But to make sure I wasn't jumping to conclusions , I began to distance myself. The more I backed away, the more he came forward. At that point, I was sure he was playing mind games. I got to a point where, I couldn't take it & my feelings were deeply hurt... so I confronted him. Not in person. I sent him a msg over a social network. I would've preferred telling him in person, but we were working together that same day & I don't like causing a scene or having people in my business. I said what I felt & I removed myself to keep from getting hurt even more. Shortly after , I heard about him & ... whoever the girl is , were having issues. And he'd been doing things that practically erased her from his life. It lasted almost a month. Then suddenly , they're together again , but he's still not referring to her as his girlfriend. Although I do still care about him , I don't want to know any of this. But that's not easy when we have mutual friends & coworkers who still don't know anything about what happened between him & I . Anyway , I can't deny it sparked my curiosity. I heard cancers develope a "facade" to hide their true feelings. Is that what he's doing ? If so , how do I get him to talk to me?
