We were so comfortable with each other since reconnecting two years ago, but lately my crab has changed and i have no idea what happened. I've noticed a change in him for the last few months and that he has become very distant. we went from lots of quality time, to hardly no time spent at all. we both have busy schedules and has always had an issue with scheduling quality time, but somehow we found a way to make it work. than through the summer our jobs caused us to be away from each other an awful lot. my job more so than his, he began to get very upset with me when i would tell him that i was too tired to visit him and i knew that i would be bad company. and then he would not speak to me for weeks, but would text here and there. for months it was always a problem with us getting together and i would miss him terribly, then by the time i would see him, i would be happy to see him but by the end of the night i would get emotional and teary eyed because i knew it would be a long time before i would see him again. the shift in attitude i habve noticed since july. he doesnt talk as much but seems happy when he see me but goes quiet and seem as if somethings troubling him. i started to feel very insecure so i asked if he lost interest in me which he responded that he was still interested. i felt that there was someone else in the picture, and he assured me that there was no one else and that he spends most of his time with his children. but i noticed that the touch is different. he doesnt look at me like he used to and seem as if he tries to find a way to feel comfortable around me or maybe he has something to say but cant say it. he has never been a great communicator when talking about us, but any other topic he talks a lot. I've tried everything to express my love for him and he has told me that he believes that my feeling for him are real. i honestly think that he felt himself in love and thinking about a future with me but is too afraid to take the chance. he had a terrible marriage that ended in divorce. and because of that i try to stay my distance because i want him to want to be with me. and not be with me rebounding from his past relationship. sometimes out of fustration i tell him im moving on and i never leave. I love this man soo much i wish that there was something that i could do to re-establish what we had. we talk like every two to three weeks now. i wish he would tell me whats going on. also Nov 7th was my b-day and he didnt even reach out.
