Married cancer man and having an affair

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CottonCandy
@CottonCandy
12 Years

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What do you guys think of a married cancer man who has a gf?

I have a friend who has had a relationship with a married cancer man for months and he told her he was married. they were together for a few months, and they were very happy together. She knew she was doing the wrong thing, and she told me that he talked to her about his wife not taking responsibility for anything in their home and kids, which forced him to be distant. He disappeared for weeks and she was very depressed I tried to help her move on, but I am still dealing with my own break up from my cancer man so I tried to help her as much as I could. She contacted him and he broke up with her, she was devastated. I told her if he ever came back or chased you after a few months do not go back to him. I know she won't listen to me. He saw her in the parking lot 3 weeks ago and he tried to get her attention and then she called him and he immediately picked up and they were talking to each other. After that he broke up with her.


My question is will he be chasing after her later because she is not contacting him ?!! Or will he come back because that what cancer men do after a break up
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LunarMaiden
@LunarMaiden
13 Years5,000+ Posts

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What is wrong with people? Seriously?

She made her choice. She willingly got involved with a married man.
Did she actually believe he would put her first over himself or his family?

He went back to his family. They are a priority.

He is under no obligation to be with this woman.
She accepted this treatment and he is going to keep disrespecting her.
Tell her to grow some balls, move on and in the near future don't sleep with married men again.

P.S.
Please check into the Cancer man advice thread created by Purrrrrr