Moon in Cancer

I was wondering; what does it exactly mean to have a moon in cancer; I've been listening to you guys, and we sound alot alike....could it be the moon? I have been known to be moody, and romantic, a dreamer, and tenaciously defensive....I am like that throughout my birthchart the exaltations I mean; almost all my water signs/birth signs are exalted; moon in cancer, and pluto in scorpio, I missed neptune in pisces, be a sign!! And my Mars is in Aries, and my merc in Libra (good placement to me) my sun is in Virgo, but I'm so damn sensitive/romantic, I can't stand it!! It's driving me crazy! I COULD deny these feelings but I like them....all I want is to be with the 'one' who makes me feel that through their shit, and mine, we bottom-line love each other....to wake up next to her, and smile at her watching her sleeping is hot/romantic to me...I'm such a damn soft cookie....I also love the moon...love it, especially being by a lake, or the ocean under the moonlight....I can just see it all the imagery....god, I'm a bleedin' heart how bout you guyz? I'm gonna go cry now!! lol 😉

*sits by the pond with feet in the water watching the moon with a break-up letter in hand* 😢

I'm begining to think that I was stood up.....😉 That's not true is it?....guyz?....aw, man....😢

*little toad jumps up to VE*

VirgoExalted:

I have moon in cancer and let me tell you sometimes it can be a pain (not without it's pos attributes though). I feel the same way you do in terms of sensitive/ Romantic. It sucks sometimes thought because I think we tend to have a VERY idealistic view of love that really happens in the movies (has yet to happen in life). Don't you think so? The thing with cancer moon is it sits at home (moon is home to Cancer) meaning it has a bigger influence on your personality than other moon signs. Also you may have noticed that when there is a full moon you tend to act more EMOTIONAL or even crazier than usual. Your moon sign is your subconscious and thus it shows how you handle situations. Also since cancer is a VERY emotional sign at times you will feel like your emotions can get out of hand

Aw, man sunaina.....did you hit the nail on the head! lol that soundz exactly correct in my way of feeling; but I am almost (at times probably by the full moon effect) COMPLETETLY driven by my instincts/emotions......I can cry at the drop of a dime, and usually, just thinkin' about it makes me want to....aw man...my childhood was rather rough, (rising in Capricorn/saturn in Sag) I was gifted, but lonely in the extreme, which forced me into shyness/aloofness sort of....I have usually so much emotion, and feel so deeply that it drives me crazy!! My mom ignores me, and dosen't 'feel' on the same wavelength as I, and it hurts like crazy when I'm with her, or my scorpion father; I have intellect, but I have this advanced heart too....and no one yet, has ever 'met' me on these levels or one....It's lonely not being able to feel what others feel, and them empathizing with you.....It' hurts....feeling so vividly, and so powerfully is devestatingly depressing, everyone asks me "why do you look so sad?" I just smile....it's all I can do....they don't understand yet, I hope they can someday....nothing would make me happier.... but it is beautiful in the greatest way feeling so powerfully, and vividly....I guess I know what it feels like to be a cancer....I'm exalted a good way throughout my chart.....I feel like I've got MPD or something!! 🙂 (multiple personality disorder)

My mars is in Aries too, and pluto in scorpio, does uranus exalt sag? or is it jupiter?

virgoexalted,

sorry I don't know where Uranus is exalted and I don't want to give you wrong info. I will tell you though that mars in Aries puts it at home also meaning your mind tends to go very very fast (sometimes faster than you'd like it to) and you think impulsively although sun in Virgo (critical) can slow the impulsiveness down as does your moon.


it's sad i know but we also tend to be SUPER SENSITIVE. . . I hate this part because we see or feel things that a lot of people may see but choose to ignore
My Dad tells me don't be so sensitive but how can you help it

the part about being MPD probably comes from the wave of emotions

u know....having my moon in pisces im supposed to be in tune with a moon in cancer but the two i know(brother and exgirlfriend) are exhausting. its always about them. then when u start to talk about yourself they lose all interest.

I also have moon i ncancer and Merc in Aries. I have intense emotions, but my Aqua sun keeps me grounded. I also have high ideals, but I'm practical and brought back to reality often. When I was younger my mother would always say "M would cry even if you toold her she is beautiful"..ii guess I was a bit of a cryer...but thats changed. I learned to grow a thick skin..its quite easy being i am a aqua.

My last boyfriend was a pisces...we just got each other.

sheesh, sunaina, stop looking into my brainz!! lol 😉

***tightly closes lid over head, so sunaina, can't look inside***
😉 😉

My god, where just a like in that sense ya know? My dad's a Scorp, and he tells me just dull down the emotions a bit....and I EXPLODE!! I know just what you mean....god, I'm sensitive, and could cry at just about anything, but I've learned to chanalize that engergy into my feelings (most men have to) and turn it into hate, or savage anger....I'm scared of how deeply I feel sometimes, becuase I'm afraid no one will be able to reciprocate.....my sun is intellect, my moon emotional, and my mars spritual.....sad thing is, I'm not understood on any of those levels.....it hurtz alot more than I lead on.....I want to cry about it, go to the bag, and beat it, but I can't let anyone know that I feel this way....so confused....😢 And I'm a guy if you haven't figured it out...😉


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well I'm a Virgo, and I'm hardly grounded, and have VERY high ideals; my father (scorp) tells me to stay grounded, and do just a little bit; but I just can't help wanting to do it all, and get this world in perfect shape....I've got so many dreams for everyone.....I don't really like to fight, so I'm always talking to people about my ideals, and that usually earns me friends. 😉

I alwayz feel this intense feeling of lonliness; well the lonliness of Virgo is amplified by Cancer.....sheesh.....I've been alone for as long as I can remember; I love my mother, and not to sure about my dad, but I feel I've not connected with them....to know that they love me, inside, and out......and to find the one who will do the same....to be loved honestly, faithfully, passionatly, and generously.....I wonder, when will my lonliness melt away....?

i have felt that same way....im 33 and it hasnt left yet, even in relationships. with my mom dying it has kind of made it worse i fear.

that is weird that you feel the lonliness too

I feel extremely lonely at times - I wonder
if it is the cancer moon hmmm—

It could be; I usually feel deeply or that I'm almost walking in the dark; I can feel almost 'mirrorly' what another person feels....It's sorta like the boundaries of that person, and I get crossed...I'm a krazy crab aren't I? :- 😉

about the unconditional thing Virgofun, think of it this way; you haven't met your 'equivalent' yet...this pain you feel is the wound of our lives we must heal; I must heal the center of my self I think; the 'I' inside ya know? I like to emerse myself in pain so that I may learn how to better prepare myself for what lies ahead, and what may stand in my way. you can't let anything stand in your way.....I haven't met my equivalent yet either. I am intellectual, emotional, and spritual....but I've never met a person whom shares my feelings in the extremes that they are; every part of me is seemingly autonomous, and fully functioning, but no one to 'balance me' yet.....I strive to perfect these autonomous parts, integrate them and express them freely, not just properly; I am lonely as well becuase I am only a child still (18) but I have such an advanced self that it's hard for others my age to keep up, but an aquarian friend of mine; I feel horribly lonely, and isolated, but I believe there is a higher reason for this pain, and loss.....for feeling that I may meet that one....