my cancer guy woos found out

i posted here before, with my major cancer man problems.
the man who came on strong and promised me a life of love and happiness and introduced me to his family. left me love notes everyday, and send me texts of loving affirmations everyday then suddenly turned into a crazy moody bipolar person, a complete monster, who wanted nothing to do with me, and treated me like garbage.

commitment phobia.

he is sorry now. for the way he treated me. he feels bad. he said he wants to go to therapy, he needs to go to therapy. but no. nothing has happened.
we chat here and there now. he says he will never forget me. well i chat with him and he responds. i wish he could feel the way he did. or the way i feel. i wish it was real for him. he says he feels really bad, i dont know why he wont fix himself.

he said, when i find a new man, i will forget all about him...

That's usually what happens when the crab realizes he's been lied to. It won't get better. If he "fixes himself" (snicker), he won't want you anyway. Time to move on, the both of you. In happiness!

I never lied to him. I am an honest, genuine, caring, loving girl, not fickle, I love someone with all my heart. I tried to make him happy, and I found myself being whittled away by his moodiness, constant fault finding, and general foul behaviour. I'm saying he has real psychological problems. He started getting all these headaches, stress and anxiety attacks, stomach issues... Not because I did anything wrong, because he had this fear... Fear of what, who knows, that I was trying to control his life, that he was going to lose his freedom, the responsibility of being in a relationship, having something better come along, he thinks if the perfect girl comes along, all his problems will be solved. I was that girl til his issues got the best of him.

What my point is, maybe sometimes there is a deeper issue. I made so many excuses for his behaviour, but he truly has issues.

I just assumed from the user name. My bad.