no contact

Hello cancerians. I know everyone is different and i'm not sure how much bearing a zodiac sign has but, i read that cancers have a hard time letting go and hold of to the past and past love. So, Is one year with no contact after a break up a long time? What type of stages do you go through? If the breakup was because of a situation outside of the relationship would that make a difference? Thank you much.

One year is a long time to have no contact from a person. I think some Cancerians can be totally masochistic and start to become addicted to the pain and want to prolong it, long after the relationship has ended.

Anyone else notice that questions around here are just getting more and more ridiculous?

I told this guy I liked him, then he texted back two years later to tell me he misses 'us' and we should hang out, and he's gonna treat me like his queen. In the same convo he told me is married, then he told me he's not married. Lmao. Sad but true.

I can see why the cancer guys esp in this forum are so annoyed with questions like these. However I cannot say I did not contribute. 😄 where's the 'like' button?

I cut off folks who hurt me with a quickness. I don't know what y'all are talking about..

what is so ridiculous about this question? I read all over the place that once a cancer loves someone and sinks there "claws" into them, they never let go. So, If i have not spoken to my ex in 1 year should i feel like an idiot for thinking that there is still hope. just looking for input.

id say let it gooooooooooooooooooo

im actually interested in what you cancers think too. i'm sort or in the same position. On what basis do you think he should give up hope? I thought there was always a chance to get back with cancers?

YES. very strong bond. first everything. love, real relationship, sex.... she said she has never felt the way she does about me towards anyone, ever.

My Cancer seems to still have a thing for his 1st love at age 16. I bet yours at least probably thinks of you. Maybe she even wonders if you will contact her again one day.

well, it was because of a legal situation. Everything was perfect, and she chased me for a looooonggg time before we started dating. I got in trouble, then after she knew everything, she still hung on for a while. Then things kind of fell apart after i put pressure on her (which at the time i didnt know i was doing). Then you told me not to call her. was just kind of all of a sudden. soooo, idk. i sucks because i still think about her sooo much.

p.s. I have cancer moon and i still think about her and miss her like crazy. I say this because I wonder if a cancer sun sign is even stronger than that and she may be doing the song thing. 🙂

As a male cancer I can say a year is a bit long but if it ended in a positive fashion i.e. no major scarring on both of your parts , then you should check it out see if the spark is still there you may be surprised with what you discover. I my self attempted to rekindle a flame that I had for a cap girl. She cheated on me notoriously and because I was young and immature and emotionally vulnerable due to my father passing at that time I just took it, it was a really dark time for me. Long story short we both came from dysfunctional families so its not like we brought each other down we were each others solace . I loved her so much and all I wanted to do was make her feel as special as she made me feel. The cheating is what ended it for me because she ended up having someones kid, and that was it for me I was out , I still cared its just that was the final tear to rip my soul apart I couldn't stay with her. So I left my home and went to college and just continued to live my life. About 2 years ago she starts contacting me out of the blue and she wants to try me again. We do one date ... And no the spark was gone the care and affection was gone and not because of the cheating I had long made peace with all that she did to me . I was just over her she's a great person awesome mother and little ditzy which is why I fell in love with here but she's not the one.

I hope that helps give you an idea of how a cancer may be.
I learned a lot from that experience and it's only made a better more confident person.

so, would you recomend calling her/texing her after all this time and she tried(though she did not to) push me away?
I know she is trying to move on. I only have one shot at an attempt so i have to play it perfect.

Dude I say go for it,Call or text ? which one are you most comfortable with? Which was the common method of communication between you to. Either way find out , so that if there's no chance you can move on knowing you gave it your best and that she just isn't it. I honestly hope its the opposite but that's just me being a romantic idealist. Another thing keep your expectations realistic nothing you plan seldom goes without a hitch.

idk man. Im not sure if i should whait a few more months and wiat untill my legal situation is over and at that point maybe she will open the door a bit. Or, maybe she is way over me, idk....

anyone else have any thoughts? One would assume that not speaking to someone in like 7 months would mean that she does not care, but it was pretty much a forced break up do to my situation. And everything with us was better than ever and i know she was crazy about me and all that. So, im in such limbo what to think as all I hear is how you cancers never truly let go. So, im this situation I would like to think that may be the case do to how everything happened

As a Cancer once I'm done, I'm done. Even if I do still care about someone, I just can't go back. Only in one case should he ask, would I do it. It's been almost two years of backing and forthing between us. However, during that time I did meet someone I was very interested in, and would've definitely continued that relationship. Right now, and for quite some time, I haven't dated. So if this man would ask, I feel it would be worth the risk and chance. It's the first time ever, but then again, I know I never did or will let go of him in my heart. He will always have a piece of it. But for me to actually put myself out there, I can't. I'm too afraid of being burned by him. And we've gone 5-6 months without a peep from one another. So the only way I will give or offer that chance again, is for him to make the move. So I guess my suggestion to you is to see with her. Because if she's anything like any other Cancer woman I know, when her heart has moved on there will be no turning back for her.