Are you a flirt?

This topic was created in the Dating forum by NZAqua on Monday, September 6, 2010 and has 16 replies.

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@crzydiam63
15 Years

This Crab recently turned me into a bowl of jello - I feel really really stupid about it right now. Like how can I let down those gates for someone I don't even know! Geeez.....I need to get my Capri grove on again.....out of my comfort zone!

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@Brown69
15 Years

It really does depend on if I feel outgoing or not. I can be. Usually I don't know i'm flirting, until I end up in a relationship. lol!

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@CancerianDude
15 YearsCancer

Not really. Sometimes I'll smile and be friendly; other times I'll pretend I don't even know they exist. So yeah. Strangely enough, it's not so much an insecurity thing as just, I don't know... a pride thing? Either way, it's not a hit with women, haha.
It's different when alcohol is involved, but I'm guessing that goes for most signs, heh.

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@LunarMaiden
14 Years5,000+ Posts

I can be a flirt, depends on the circumstances. I was flirting last night at a stop light with two guys in a car next to mine. One said hello, I said hello back. Smiled, looked over batted my eyelashes; repeat. When they rolled the window down to get more contact I waved goodbye and made my exit to the highway. LOL The looks on their faces was priceless. Sometimes i will even blow kisses.

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@LunarMaiden
14 Years5,000+ Posts

Posted by iwin32

Posted by shellshocker
Yes... but only if I'm not interested in you.

If I like you, I get seductive.

haha I relate to that. I tend to flirt with women I'm absolutely not interested in. It's weird because if I'm into you, I tend not to flirt at all which makes not sense to me haha

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The same for me. For some reason I get shy.

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@LunarMaiden
14 Years5,000+ Posts

Posted by NZAqua
Well?

Are ya?

Do you get those eyelashes batting, flirt like mad.... or do you just go all shy and coy when you're in front of someone you really like?

Very coy, I flirt with men I have no attraction to.
I have decided to flip the switch and just relax.
Will start flirting with the guys I like, but it's a delicate dance.
I can't flirt too much or the guy will not think I am serious.

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@lawliet
12 Years

Apparently, guys think I flirt when Im actually just very shy around them. Its weird. So I guess the guys who like shy nice girls are so into me. But the moment I get comfortable with them and i can unleash my inner dorky happy crazy caring side, they get scared of how much depth I actually have. And the flirting stops. Lol cancers cant be flirts at full capacity!