Opposites attract?

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PixieDust
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Do you guys ever think that you are more romantically or sexually attracted to your opposites, or least compatible zodiacs on the wheel? I've come to find that sometimes when I met men that I am supposedly "compatible" with, I find that we're so like-minded, it feels like a platonic, strictly friend relationship.

Where as when I've met Cancers, Scorps, Caps and Taurus men I've felt more "attracted" to them. Maybe because we're different it adds an element of mystery?

I'm a gem girl and I personally can't date other gemini men. I never develop profound feelings, like it's just not there. I've also thad this problem with aquarius and saggitarian men. It's like we're too alike to stir up long lasting emotions.

Any thoughts?
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Scubafish
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15 Years500+ Posts

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Honestly, it all depends on the individual and the rising sign.

For example, I am a Pisces with Virgo rising.

Yes, there was a time wherein I was really attracted to Virgo women.

However, I also maintain the belief that once a water sign is with another water sign for a very long and powerful relationship, it can be really difficult to go into a relationship with an earth sign.

For one thing, the earth sign may have a difficult time bonding with water in the same manner that another water sign can.
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justSophs
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15 YearsCancer

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u know I have been attracted to all signs except Leo (maybe 1 leo guy in my army unit, I grew to like appreciate him). I cant really say that I like any pisces guy either. there is one that is cool but he is a big player...I grew to like him.

Dated 1 Aries guy but he was younger than me & that was a turn off. Was married to a gemini.

OHHHH yes it is the Scorpio men that I do not like. I wont give them a chance when I hear that they are Scorpio becaue my dad is 1 and he a complete dirt bag.

But dated Cap, Sag (best sex ever), Gemini (ex-husband), Taurus, he chased me a lot but he had a girl & frequently sleeps around btu daammmmvery sexy, rich, & famous but not me. I can swoon over him from a far.

Dated 1 cancer once (wtf was I thinking), dated virgo, Libra 9not into them either)

I pretty much have experience with all signs...my fav would be Caps.

I am Cancer btw
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pretty713
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I have a instant attraction to Leo's. My Venus and north node is in Leo

Taurus men ALWAYS love me and for the most part I always love them back.

Capricorn love me too BUT I was married to one and WONT GO THERE UNLESS THEY HAVE WATER OR FIRE IN THEIR CHART then maybe we can talk. My ex hubbie had way to much cap in his chart and was too detched, no fire no passion uhgggg! Good guy tho

Aries i love and ARE NOTHING BUT TROUBLE.....

Libras become more like a brother....then I may start crushing on them (my moon & rising is in Sagittarius) so we connect pretty well

Cancer/Pisces ALSO must have some EARTH OR FIRE IN THEIR CHART to balance them out or I cant even consider them.
Scorpios I WILL NEVER TRUST CAUSE...... THEY CAN NEVER TRUST!
Virgo nope
Gemini nope (but I love how most Gemini men are TALL)
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PixieDust
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I'm not talking polar opposite. Mine is saggitarius and I find we get along great!

I'm a gem and I am most attracted to the sensitive men like Cancer.

When dating other air signs, ESPECIALLY gemini--it feels far too platonic for me. We are so alike and we understand each other so well, that the mystery is essentially gone. I often find that people fall in love with people who are so opposite to them. Maybe because that person makes them feel complete...even when there is huge misunderstandings and compatibility obstacles to overcome.

My mom is an aries, she married my father, a pisces. They fight a LOT and have communication issues but the love they share has lasted over 25 years and still going strong.

My friend who is a virgo is dating a libra for 3 years...they've been on/off and have been through a lot of rough times but they overcame it and are now finally on for over a year and they are SO in love.

My grandma is an aries and my grandpa, cancer. They have an incredibly wonderful marraige. I've never seen two people so happy, and SO in love. You can still see it in their eyes.