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Ok,tough need crabs insight. My crab(male and I) after 3 years made amends -he said he was sorry for all he had done and would make up for it and asked could we meet and said did I find would want to....fast forward my kid doesnt like him/his temper/i backed away. So he erupted online w/ this female i had asked if he met her. He stuttered then and said "why do you ask"-this was asked before the fall out.
I dont know why but my page is related to kids , safety, abuse in general-I did a long row on the need for all victims and consensual adults to get a STD panel especially for HIV-if abused or before havin sex w/ a new person. Im in the medical world and posted the aftermath if not done.No sooner than I posted this. Well she went ape shit on her wall- he turns his black and wrote R.I.P. and has gone MIA-he told me prior to this... shes an ex-hooker..

:/ So what is your exact question?

I think when they read my post on AIDs, she saw it he went oh shit and hes disappeared dunno...like i said shes an exhooker

So you're asking if he disappeared from his online account because he thinks this exhooker gave him something? Or he disappeared because he figured you were on to him and his relationship to an exhooker? So you haven't spoken to him? I imagine he was well aware of the possibilities of catching an STD if and when dealing with a hooker, so I'm guessing this isn't the issue you want to address. If he's hiding from you after this and sounded shady to begin with, he probably did do something with the exhooker and freaked out when you found out. He probably didn't want to tell you because of the fear of judgment or fear of losing a chance with you (a redo chance at that). Cancers are highly non confrontational when they don't know how to fix something or how to say something the right way or how to face people when they've hurt someone or caused a mess. He will probably stay hidden for awhile until the coast is clear and the situation is long forgotten about, then nonchalantly bring it up.

Hes ignoring her-shes imploding. They met during a mutual drunken phaze-hes made bad decisions before and he and I already had parted before any of this. I think he called her on it and is scared and getting tested, or she lied -which she does compulsively. I just hope hes alright.