scorpio shutting me out

Im a cancer female and have been dating my scorp for 2 years now. We have always had chemistry like no other. Hes away in school and says things have started to become overwhelming for him , mentioned his family , grandma in particular but was still sand offish on not telling me full details on why he didnt want us together anymore. he says It has nothing to do with me , but whys he treating me like a stranger like I cant be the one to help him . Hes been distant and knows I love him. he expressed he loved me as a person . he keeps saying don't wait for him . but he knows clearly that im not going anywhere. Says he loves me but I not in love with me.What would be the best thing to do at this point . He also hasn't deleted and pictures or anything. Says were broken up and he doesn't want me to think we are on a break. I know he wont tell me certain things because of how he is , secretive so whtever. but if I have nothing to do with this why am I the one paying for it with a weird break up .this is so left field to why he's acting so shallow towards me. We have expressed things to each other he hasn't even told his parents. deep down I know this man is who makes me feel out of this world . I need to know by letting him have his time to himself will he come back to me.I have never cheated on him although his past relationship she cheated on him twice. not very close with his dad but is a mommas boy .I am a strong cancer who can put up with this kind of man. but it hurts me to see him like this and more hurt because of what hes doing to me .? Help

If he broke up with you, you have to move on.
Being strong does not mean you wait for someone to change their mind after telling you they don't want to be with you.

Strength is accepting that this relationship is over and moving on.
I'm sorry this is sad and I know it hurts but people's feelings just change.

He's away at school having new experiences and overwhelmed by his studies.
Don't get stuck, let him go.

I see a lot of Cancer F/Scorpio M threads going up with one of them ditching the other.
Especially after one has chosen school over relationship.
I've never gotten that close to a Scorpio male but I'm sure the loss of that connection must be gut wrenching.

Yea unless he can tell u how he really feels you need to move on. Does he treat you like he treats everybody else?

He doesn't treat me like anyone else . he loves me which were his words . Ivebeen letting him have his space . He kept implying don't wait for him don't wait for him , which I think is just reverse psychology. He doesn't answer my question directly when I ask if this is really what he wants . What is he waiting for me to do if he still has photos up and everything ?

He said what he said, to don't over analyze it. That doesn't mean you have to find a new man right this minute, but focus on you, your life, your interests. Stop worrying about him if he's not wanting the relationship and doesn't want to share his problems. Will this be easy to do? Hell no! But you can do it.

So does he treat you better or worse then everybody else!

Posted by Kay333
He doesn't treat me like anyone else . he loves me which were his words . Ivebeen letting him have his space . He kept implying don't wait for him don't wait for him , which I think is just reverse psychology. He doesn't answer my question directly when I ask if this is really what he wants . What is he waiting for me to do if he still has photos up and everything ?

I'm not sure it's reverse psychology when he says not to wait for him. He might be feeling guilty about his inability to commit, since he actually cares about you he may not want you to waste your time waiting when he's not sure if he'll want to get back with you or not. He may feel it's not fair to you if you remain stuck on him when he feels that either you are not right for each other or it's not the right time. I know it's a lot easier said than done but not waiting around for him probably is the best course of action. However, I'm having a ton of trouble moving on from my distant Scorpio love, so I don't know how well I take my own advice.