Should wait for a Cancer girl or not?

If a Cancer girl says she feels uncomfortable when I say I with I was with her right now, does it mean she is not interested in me at all? She knows I like her a lot, but I haven't said I love her because this might be too soon for her. She said she will not go in to any sort of relationship, ??_

At least one reply would have been nice -_- Now that I read a few other posts in the forum, my post should have been a little more detailed. But still, any sort of reply would have been nice.

Yeah...not interested at the moment...not necessarily later on. We like to take our sweet time and get to know you as friends first and then months later we are falling for you! And then you will know we want to be with you and you can say I love you. Not before though as we do not like to feel pressured or backed into a corner. We will scurry away fast from you if you come on too strong.

If she said she doesn't want a relationship, friend zone her immediately.

What is your birthday Mnzr?

Sorry for the rude post guys -_- I am a Sagittarius, my birthday is December 11. A Cancer lady is definitely addictive for us Sagittarians. I know that Cancers need lot of nurture and care before they can start feeling safe with someone. That's why I always went ahead to help her out with things she could easily do with a helping hand. Not undermining her, she is capable of doing things in her own way, which is a lot saner and methodical than I handle things.

The problem is, she doesn't want to give me any false hope. I felt her slide away from me for weeks with lesser and lesser frequent messages whereas we used to talk on phone in every few hours on at the beginning. Last night she said we needed to talk, so I went ahead and tried to assure her that I am not expecting anything from her at the moment. What she said was logical too. She said she is having problem with talking to me when I am all goo goo eyes. She wants me as a good friend like all her other male friends, only then she can talk to me normally.

I don't want to make her do anything that she will regret later. But I also miss her, because she is one my closest friends. For Sagittarians their girlfriends and crushes are best friends most of the times, I guess. The amount of emotional relief she gave me is unimaginable with someone else.

I guess it's time to let go of my feelings. She is so kind that I can't even blame her for leaving me or something like that, which is usually what a Sagittarian does to keep his conscience clear (I know what my worst traits are). After this talk about being friends I was so crushed that I wanted to talk to someone, so I called her but immediately dropped it thinking how rude it would be. I am the reason why she is worried about me, my reckless thoughts and impulses are causing her trouble. And what happened just after that? She called me and we talked for hours about me, just me.

Even after toning my directness down things turned out something quiet unexpectedly. Now I feel like texting and calling her every now and then, but I know she won't reply.