Some insight on cancer sun Virgo moon guy

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Shaniajam
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So we have been texting and conversating on the phone... Took me to breakfast and we hit it off fine... Two days in a row he's Bebe hinting at me like "no good morning? I feel like I'm chasing the cat... I guess I think about you more than you think about me" with that I replied you always say good morning first and it's only because I know you're working so I wait till you have time to text but I'm here waiting" and gooooood moooooorning (smiley face). Last night he said... Damn no text from you to see how I'm doing? I replied and said I know you need to unwind after work so I wait until you are available. He'll also do things like "like" my status on Facebook then I'll text, let me know when you are available to talk he'll text back immediately that he's available. And the conversations are great. He doesn't dissapear and he answers my questions and I feel needed. Now I know this time shall pass soon as I am more experienced from my last cancer. But becuase of my last cancer I'm more cautious... I want to be all wrapped up in him but as soon as I do I know he will run off. Am I being too distant? Should i make him feel more needed? Even if we argue on other discussions your opinions are needed cause this is a forum not a fight room. Thanks all.
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Posted by MiZLeo
My ex husband is a cancer sun virgo moon....this stuff was cute when we first got together and he was chasing me but then after marrying him it got worse to the point of verbal/mental abuse. It is manipulation. The woe is me....I do everything and you do nothing and blah blah blah. Or, you think I'm ugly and hate me (when I haven't even said anything...and yes, I married you yet I think your ugly?) Or you don't give a shit about me because you never do this that and whatever his excuse was for the day. Just my experience with those placements.
Ok I got you and I will definitely look for the signs lol
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I am an Cancer sun, VIrgo moon. Girl, you got your hands full - we over analyze.
Interesting!! I'm Taurus sun and moon so I double over analyze too... Hehehe what a ride this will be... So should I remain the same should I just text more or first or wait like I have been doing?
Taurus sun, I'm sure you are highly physically attractive to him, so you should pay attention to making him feel secure. I love Taurus women but always got scared away with the insecurity of thinking everyone wants them.
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Omg!! This is exactly what's happening! He said something last night. I'm an entertainer so my Facebook has a lot of activity. But I tell him that he has my number and my time so he shouldn't worry about that. But I think my relationships are failing because of this. I really like him. I want him to know he has my interest. Now I wonder if my other one failed because of that too smh.
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I am an Cancer sun, VIrgo moon. Girl, you got your hands full - we over analyze.
Interesting!! I'm Taurus sun and moon so I double over analyze too... Hehehe what a ride this will be... So should I remain the same should I just text more or first or wait like I have been doing?
Taurus sun, I'm sure you are highly physically attractive to him, so you should pay attention to making him feel secure. I love Taurus women but always got scared away with the insecurity of thinking everyone wants them.
Omg!! This is exactly what's happening! He said something last night. I'm an entertainer so my Facebook has a lot of activity. But I tell him that he has my number and my time so he shouldn't worry about that. But I think my relationships are failing because of this. I really like him. I want him to know he has my interest. Now I wonder if my other one failed because of that too smh.
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You've shown him your interest already, by responding to him.
Otherwise you'd have ignored him. Don't take the lead role, let him lead.
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Posted by Finbuff
I am an Cancer sun, VIrgo moon. Girl, you got your hands full - we over analyze.
Interesting!! I'm Taurus sun and moon so I double over analyze too... Hehehe what a ride this will be... So should I remain the same should I just text more or first or wait like I have been doing?
Taurus sun, I'm sure you are highly physically attractive to him, so you should pay attention to making him feel secure. I love Taurus women but always got scared away with the insecurity of thinking everyone wants them.
Omg!! This is exactly what's happening! He said something last night. I'm an entertainer so my Facebook has a lot of activity. But I tell him that he has my number and my time so he shouldn't worry about that. But I think my relationships are failing because of this. I really like him. I want him to know he has my interest. Now I wonder if my other one failed because of that too smh.
You've shown him your interest already, by responding to him.
Otherwise you'd have ignored him. Don't take the lead role, let him lead.
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Thank you I shall do that and just continue waiting. I text once and wait for response. Even if it takes hours. Funny cause of how the first one did me, if he doesn't....I'm fine! Lol. Thanks skit really.
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wow okay this sounds like my cancerian ex who was a virgo venus and virgo moon.
There was not one day when he disappeared. Everyday goodmorning texts and we would lead our day thereby. Very appreciate of me . Would stay connected all the time yet never impose himself on me.
Very sensitive,emotional,sentimental and literally a question paper.
If you tell him "you are really awesome", be prepared to answer questions like "why do you think so?" "can you elaborate that more?" , "are you 100% honest with your remark?"
lalaalalala but at the end of the interview he'd be very appreciate of your willingness to answer.
Handling this kind may not be easy for everyone because at times even I being a sweet pisces feel as if I am nurturing a baby.
They also get offended too soon. They can smell detachment really well and don't take it lightly.
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Posted by gia
wow okay this sounds like my cancerian ex who was a virgo venus and virgo moon.
There was not one day when he disappeared. Everyday goodmorning texts and we would lead our day thereby. Very appreciate of me . Would stay connected all the time yet never impose himself on me.
Very sensitive,emotional,sentimental and literally a question paper.
If you tell him "you are really awesome", be prepared to answer questions like "why do you think so?" "can you elaborate that more?" , "are you 100% honest with your remark?"
lalaalalala but at the end of the interview he'd be very appreciate of your willingness to answer.
Handling this kind may not be easy for everyone because at times even I being a sweet pisces feel as if I am nurturing a baby.
They also get offended too soon. They can smell detachment really well and don't take it lightly.
Holy cow. He needs a lot of reassurance. Shit....I get it now. Yes he does ask me to explain my answers then be satisfied once I explain. The jealous streak is there too...but I'm jealous too so it doesn't bother me. This explains it. Thank you.
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wow okay this sounds like my cancerian ex who was a virgo venus and virgo moon.
There was not one day when he disappeared. Everyday goodmorning texts and we would lead our day thereby. Very appreciate of me . Would stay connected all the time yet never impose himself on me.
Very sensitive,emotional,sentimental and literally a question paper.
If you tell him "you are really awesome", be prepared to answer questions like "why do you think so?" "can you elaborate that more?" , "are you 100% honest with your remark?"
lalaalalala but at the end of the interview he'd be very appreciate of your willingness to answer.
Handling this kind may not be easy for everyone because at times even I being a sweet pisces feel as if I am nurturing a baby.
They also get offended too soon. They can smell detachment really well and don't take it lightly.
Holy cow. He needs a lot of reassurance. Shit....I get it now. Yes he does ask me to explain my answers then be satisfied once I explain. The jealous streak is there too...but I'm jealous too so it doesn't bother me. This explains it. Thank you.
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Also, why did you guys break up? If you don't mind?