What are his intentions??

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Moodz2468
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13 YearsCancer

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OK I have been dealing with a cancer man and its been one hell of an emotional ride. We only been talking for a few months, its long distance. We have had complications and pretty much ended things becuase the relationship was not moving forward in a way it should be. Miscommunications, misunderstandings, disappearing acts, etc... I have expressed to him on numerous occasions that I was unhappy and asked would it be better for us to see other people. I am guessing he does not like for me to tell him whats bothering him. I thought in a relationship you have to open about your feelings in order to make things work. He chose not to make an effort to try to make it right between us. so I decided what was best for me and try to move on. he was confused on what he wanted out of the relationship or where he wanted the relationship to go. I was always left in a state of confusion not knowing anything thing about his feelings. Its only been a couple of days since i told him I was done with games. He keeps sending me pictures of us together and my little love notes and poems I wrote to him. Why is he doing that? I did ask him what he is trying to say when he sends me these things and I have yet to recieve an answer. I just dont get it. I am a cancer too and I dislike when somebody is trying to play mind games. Either he wants me or not plain and simple. I have told him this also. I am so tired.
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Este8
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Posted by Moodz2468
The past couple of days I havn't contacted him. He is the one that keeps sending me these stupid messages. Its almost like he wants me to feel sorry that I walked away or something. This whole thing is so frustrating.



It means he likes knowing you're waiting in the wings for him. You might even graduate from "wing girl" to "fallback girl" but how long would that last and would it make you happy? If he really dug you, he'd be consistent and clear. I'm not trying to rain on your parade but women can waste an amazing amount of time & energy on men whose aren't "in it to win it" and aren't worth the effort. When it is right, you won't be asking these questions.