What do cancers want in an relationship?

Hello,

This would be my 3rd time going out with a cancerian girl of mine,but his time she seems less responsive.I text MSG her on thursday and she did not reply and when i called her,she said that she would "talk to me later".
She called me on a saturday and asked "how was i"? and why didn't i call her?
What the heck?I told her i called her on thursday and she said she would call back..,well she says she "forgot".
She seems to be forgetting a lot of things and does not reply to my messages a lot of times,do we really have a relationship i wonder?
She is a nice girl,a bit on the sarcastic side but nice.She does not like to get involved in anybody else's problems,not even mine.Her favorate line would be.."well.its not any of MY business"
I'm running out of topics to talk with her,i already know about her sis,her bro and her whole family history,and she knows mine.
She's nice,and i think i wanna be with her for awhile.How do i keep her intrestead
in me?

Well get naughtier.

You're a nice guy and she's nice, so maybe you should hold hands.

Hello,
I've tried to get close to hold her hand,but she does not allow it and also,when i get naughty,she find it irritating.This is the first time i've ever been with a cancerian and wow,it's such a challange.I know she talks to me a lot and says she trusts me but i dont think she is ready to go on to the next level.
What can i do to make her believe that i really like her?
She does not like me buying her expensive gifts,she will even reject it..
She does not like it if i get "too" close.

Be patient and re-read carebabys initial post.

Ha Ha...Sarcasm is a defense mechanism, don't let it get to you.

Keep her interested? Buy her simple gifts that mean something to her rather than something extravagant. We are not like say Leo or Taurus women in that we just like expensive things...we see that as a waste. If it is something useful, it will be alot better appreciated.

You are going to have to subtly push her a bit, but believe me, we love playing hard to get...Like the maiden in the tower waiting for a big handsome man to rescue her, but she has to make sure you are not a frog! She probably really does like & trust you, but we are very careful with whom we give our hearts b/c they are so fragile and it takes alot to get over when we really love someone.

3 rd times da charm,lol WHo makes dis stuff,lol. Good luck though. Give her room though. Keep her interested by talking zhiznit aka jus be funny, what's her interests. Gifts?Jus don't go overboard. Don't be too nice,das a no no. Make sure u have ur things together and of course be freaaaakkyyy. Talk sex. Hey if she can't dig ya, den leave. Enjoy life. And keep focus. DAMMMn da mooon shoo moon shooooo.lol

Don't be overtly sexual...Well at least not if you haven't had sex with her yet. I hate when I talk to a guy for the first few times and he's all like "I wanna eat you out"

TOTAL TURNOFF! Remember subtley is key...