What is it like dating a cancer guy?

what is it like dating a cancer guy? what are their turn ons/turn offs?? I'm a libra girl. Tell me some experiences please!! 😛

Posted by thomas1214

Posted by sessylibra1
what is it like dating a cancer guy? what are their turn ons/turn offs?? I'm a libra girl. Tell me some experiences please!! 😛

how about you and me go out then i guess you'll find out.. but i want some classy wine and dine!! or else i'll be moody

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LMAO!!!!

LOL@Shellshocker

good in the beginning, confusing in the middle, horrific in the end

Nice at first but then jerk starts to make fun of you (its up to u wether or not u can take it and pinch that crab back..my suggestion is STRIKE back makes them happy to knw ur not just a taker but that ur a woman with power 😉

I seriously suggest you to be strong and not take his
"jokes" up the bu*t. Lol plus as much as u might not
Like em, they cn actually be funny if u dont take it seriously lol

Posted by tiki33


good in the beginning, confusing in the middle, horrific in the end

Sounds about right.

Posted by tiki33
LOL@Shellshocker

good in the beginning, confusing in the middle, horrific in the end

I think I'm in the middle lol. Any clue on how to pin down this crab? I'm a sagit btw.

As a Gemini Ive had my run ins with Cancers. They seem to really, really like us air signs. You being a Libra smarten the hell up and move on. Don't even think about it.

We really aren't so bad. You just need to have boundaries established and never let us cross them. If you don't take our shit we'll respect you. We take whatever you allow us. Whatever you let us get away with is what we will continue to do. I won't lie sometimes we need coaching and unfortunately all of us aren't coachable. Ride the wave and follow your heart but don't leave your mind behind at the shoreline.

Posted by thecontender
We really aren't so bad. You just need to have boundaries established and never let us cross them. If you don't take our shit we'll respect you. We take whatever you allow us. Whatever you let us get away with is what we will continue to do. I won't lie sometimes we need coaching and unfortunately all of us aren't coachable. Ride the wave and follow your heart but don't leave your mind behind at the shoreline.

Thats the truth set some ground rules and keep your volitions, while being aware of your moods, and cancers aren't that difficult.

Posted by thecontender
We really aren't so bad. You just need to have boundaries established and never let us cross them. If you don't take our shit we'll respect you. We take whatever you allow us. Whatever you let us get away with is what we will continue to do. I won't lie sometimes we need coaching and unfortunately all of us aren't coachable. Ride the wave and follow your heart but don't leave your mind behind at the shoreline.

Amen!! Preach

real talk lol

Posted by tiki33
LOL@Shellshocker

good in the beginning, confusing in the middle, horrific in the end

Got that right!

I should have paid closer attention to the signs my Cancer ex was exhibiting of psycho tendencies. I met the guy via friends in another state and we only briefly spoke for two days as we were all staying at his place. Then I got home and he found me via my friend's MySpace and sent me a message. I didn't respond to it for 3 days and he sent me another message "So you're ignoring me?". WTF...

Anyway, I ignored that because I thought well maybe he just liked me a lot. No harm in that right (or so I thought). We had a LDR and he would fly me out there monthly, being a complete gentleman and blowing copious amounts of cash on me each time he saw me. I felt really special that he would go the distance for me and thought he was this perfect guy. He always bought me roses randomly, wrote me poems, drew artwork of me, and just pampered the hell out of me.

Then he started getting verbally abusive towards the middle. He was very insecure about comments made towards him from other people, and tried to attack me after he had been attacked by others verbally! Found out he abused prescription meds (that's what I get for being in a LDR.. you never really know if they're mentally ill or druggies). When the verbal abuse started, I got suspicious and when he left his apartment, I went on his laptop and he still had his MySpace page open. That bastard was asking his former co-worker to hang out with him, and also had a message from some gay guy!

Towards the end, he became physically abusive because he asked me to move there and I said I can't because I didn't want to leave California. Then he asked me,"Don't you want to marry me?" I replied,"Marriage?? I'm too young for that!" I just turned 21 and we have only been together for 5 months at the time! He flipped out! He went completely crazy. He said,"Why are you with someone if you don't want to marry them??" I was like,"HOLD ON A DAMN MINUTE. I didn't say I would never get married or CONSIDER marrying the person. I'm just not ready to get married NOW". Too late, he started destroying my belongings and raging. I had to lock the bathroom to prevent him from murdering me on the spot. Then the fucker said,"I cheated on you with my ex girlfriend... TWICE!". This was during our first month together and right after