Advice needed about Cap guy - dont understand

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SarahJ
@SarahJ
15 Years

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Im new to this board but so pleased I found it as feels like Im going mad!!

This guy (cap) and I should add I am also a cap go to the same gym. For about two months he has been approaching me and we have been flirting (or at least I think we have..!!) He has seemed to be really taking the time to get to know me etc. When I showed a little more interest he seemed to back off then when I backed off he came back again. Over the last 2 weeks the flirting seems to have started to increase. He has begun to make daft excuses to touch me (i.e. feeling my bicep in gym) and we will talk for about 40/50 mins in the gym and we now talk online for like over 2 hours at a time. He keeps making suggestions about doing things together such as him cooking for me, watching films etc - I go along with this but then nothing happens/nothing is arranged. But then he continues to keep on suggesting things— He sent me a valentines message and we were talking at the weekend online and he was hinting that he thinks Im sexy and he said he gives me compliments all the time but doesnt say them aloud - he also said he keeps things to himself. I was doing a presentation last week and he said if he had been there he would of asked questions, when I asked him what question he said "there is a guy at your gym..what do you think of him" - so Im assuming this was his way of saying what do you think of me?

I just dont understand what is going on here? Im so confused? He seems to be making loads of effort, i.e. all the time alone he is spending talking to me and he is the one keep suggesting things so why isnt anything happening??!! This is going so slow... then I start thinking is this all in my head??!!
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SarahJ
@SarahJ
15 Years

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Thanks! Patience is an understatement!! I've never gone out with a cap guy before and I've never experienced anything quite like this before!! Im a cap and I admit Im naturaly very cautious and keep things close to my chest but Im not as time taking as he is! Its driving me insane! he seems to be opening up more and more and I keep thinking he must like me given all the effort etc he seems to be making but yet cant understand why he hasnt taken any of his "suggestions" forward...but yet keeps saying them again and again! He says he isnt shy but not sure I believe him..certainly not re feelins etc..he seems very closed - if thats the right word?