All I Want Is A Good Woman ... HUH?

All I Want Is A Good Woman ... HUH?

I recently asked my guy friend (and five others)w hat he wanted in a women beside the physical attributes. He named the same clich' qualites that most men list. Afterwards, I asked him would he consider being with a woman with ALL the wonderful qualities he named ... but without most of the physical elements. Taking a few moments to think, he said: "No ... she has to have that body ..."

Really ... WHATEVER!!! In my opinion this totally contradicts his statement about wanting a "Good" woman. Keep in mine, I asked six guys this same exact question and only two out of six said looks didn't matter! LOL, and guys wonder why they end up unhappy in a relationship.

Gentlemen, "What looks stunnning on the outside may be very toxic within." Looks don't make the person.

Like myself some women will not put on a false image!

I've noticed this mentality comes from CERTAIN males of the zodiac (five of them)why do you all have such superficial expectations for women—

"That isn't much of a problem since women are the exact same way."

Hahaha, I just responded about the same exact thing on the virgo website. No, Brahn I think you are VERY wrong on this ... maybe women are the same when it comes to the materialistic attributes of a man but we are not the same as men when it comes to wanting them "perfect".

Men are more geared towards physical aspects of a woman. We often look for women who may be good in the bed. That isn't much of a problem since women are the exact same way.

Branh it seems you continue to run into very shallow women. I don't look for who might be good in bed, but who good enough to be a good husband and father. We can always work on the sex thing. There are books and classes for that.

and women want men to be "emotionally perfect".

respect me
love me
don't cheat on me
has the ablity to cry

"Could be because we are unknowingly driven by our biological clock and hence have to settle with less than what we hoped for?

Men aren't really that tied to their biological clock, guess that allows them to pursue or demand "perfection"."

sb, I never thought about that ... I hope my biological clock doesn't start ticking until I'm in my 40s LOL!!!! (I know that's impossible).

"women want men to be "emotionally perfect"

Really— This is odd to read. Maybe your experience is different then mine because some women try to help men with emotional problems. I almost did this until I was advised not to 😉

Your perception of women is based on experience. My insight on this is that you have met some pretty "rough" women ...

"I know what you meant but I am trying to say that soon women could have far more choices than ever before so who knows what "settling down" will mean in the future."

This is true, but I think this is a wonderful. Honestly, the more choices women have the more likely they will settle ... it's the men who may continue running ramphet unfortunately.

"Birth Control, is still very artificial really. In the end a woman cannot deny her biological clock."

I agree! I'm all for contraceptive because I would consider myself an idoit not be -- being a female. However, my system can't handle birth control pills ... so it's either condoms or doing the whole "fertile awareness thing" BUT I WILL ONLY DO THAT WHEN I MARRIED!

LOL, sometimes counting your days doesn't work.