Any guys...need to know what to expect out of these boys. Strange mix. What do they want out of me? First they tell me they really like me, they could see themselves with me and then they're not calling.
Any Cap guys with Scorpio Rising?
Call him! You'll both feel better.
It's a little complicated...why must I go to him? His brother said that I had to pursue him also, but what about me? haha. We're definetely changing the way relationships work these days. He was raised by women though. It's funny the second time we hung out he sits next to me and the first thing out of his mouth was, "I have attachment issues." I just looked at him like...okay— (not like he was stupid, but I was confused) He then says that his dad came back after leaving him seventeen years ago. It was odd. And then he started telling me instantly about his ex and what she did to him. He said he thinks that his attachment problems make him have bad relationships. Do caps normally do this? I thought maybe after we got to know eachother more that it had to do with his rising sign. I know calling him would be so simple, but sometimes I feel like it might push a guy away if you act too forward.
Okay...he is bringing over the girl that he was dating before me tonight. The last I heard about that was that he said they had nothing in common and decided to be friends and that he wasn't attracted to her. hmmmm...am I to just sit and act okay with all of this? We don't have a label so I really can't be mad, but what's the deal? I could be overreacting.
I said to call him, because it sounds like he's already mentioned that he would consider you. He wants to make sure the feeling is mutual before acting. Capricorns only take calculated risks, and the more you look like a sure-thing, the more he's likely to initiate a relationship. You don't have to do everything. Just make it known that you like him, and you expect him to make the first move. I'm sure he will.
You were right. 🙂 We had a really good night on Saturday. And he didn't bring the girl. Thank God! I shouldn't be threathened by her anyway...he said he's not attracted to her and that they're friends. That works for me. The night ended really good. I'm getting the feeling actually that he does need a girl to make him feel good about himself just from the things that he was saying. And I'm really good at that. After a couple of drinks he relaxes a more and definetely can open up. Anyways...thank you AG.
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